ok he is like really popular and i am not but we do sports togeather yet i dont know what to dohe dosn't have a girlfriend and i want to ask him out but i'm to scared. What should i do?
2006-11-18 05:32:02 · 10 answers · asked by nesalynbug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember in school when I had crushes on guys that didn't know I existed. I even wrote a poem called "Invisible." It's hard! It's part of growing up.
You have a few options. Do nothing & keep your feelings a secret until eventually your crush disappears. Or, you could put your heart on the line & ask him out but you have to be prepared for the worst just in case he says no. How will you deal with the rejection? Will you still be able to play sports with him & not feel uncomfortable? Or, you could take a smaller risk & try to just be subtle about it. Talk to him. Flirt with him a little. Maybe make plans as a friend. Play it really casual so he just thinks you like him as a friend. Look in his eyes when he talks to you. You can usually pick up a vibe if someone is into you. Let it happen naturally. Trust your instincts. Don't push it if it's not meant to be.
Good luck!
If he likes you too then that's great but if he doesn't it's not the end of the world. There are a lot of other fish in the sea. One day you will find the right person & he will feel the same way for you that you do for him. That's the best feeling in the world.
I don't miss those unrequited loves, high school crushes. They were hard! I much prefer to love & be loved back!
2006-11-18 05:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you do have a problem hear but we can fix that. I think that you should get to know him more like I think if he won't make the first move you make it. Like for the simple first move just go up to him say hi and say stuff you like to do and find out stuff you both like. Then maybe he'll like you enough to ask you out to the movies or maybe you'll have to ask him out. But I say just get to know him more and become friends first.
2006-11-18 05:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kylie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him!
if you dont,
he will NEVER
know you well
enough to date
him anyhow. try
introducing your-
self to him one
day, but when
you do, make
sure u ask him
his name after u
give him yours.
that way, he doesnt
feel like he has the
upper hand. then
when u see him
other places, just
drop a casual 'hi
how are you?' &
maybe even start
another converstation
some of the times
you see him and
hes not with anyone
else. :]
goodluck with
everything!!
2006-11-18 05:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweet.heart_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,girls shouldnt ask about guys,second,its not normal for unpopular kid to go with a popular kid.Just try and hang out with him a little,ya know be around him,he might come around!
♥♥
2006-11-18 05:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well as im a boy ask him and he will say yes if ur fit of course but by ur pic u look it
2006-11-18 05:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't life replacing. you do not want to be with a guy who would not like you. the further sturdy you try to get him to note u, the more severe he thinks of you. bypass on. be your self
2016-11-25 02:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by gode 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out
2006-11-18 05:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be bold & tell him the truth.
2006-11-18 05:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU LOVE HIM THAT MUCH.
THEN ASK HIM OUT .
BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE
2006-11-18 05:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become visible, little by little
2006-11-18 05:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋