He cheasted on me with 2 girls one was my best friend and the other a girl he made-out with in the bathroom at the pool. i need revenge on him, and it wasnt my friends fault she didnt know i was going out with him.
2006-11-18 05:20:46 · 32 answers · asked by nicky B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be happy and flaunt it in his face. The best revenge is happines, so get with someone else (his best bud wouldn't hurt) and prance around him all giddy. Show him that the mess he pulled didn't phase you and then he'll feel real sh*tty.
2006-11-18 05:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What type of revenge you wana take. I am sorry to say that this whole nasty drama of bf, gf is really very very low level activity. Why don't you do some thing positive and creative. At least get some lesson from the UN-WED moms. How alarming is the situation? That every one is trying to spoil his/her dignity, decency, and moral values.
The best revenge can be that you kick out this drama attitude of bf, gf, dating and become a pious, God fearing and nice person.
2006-11-18 05:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have so been there, and I have done some AWFUL things to some guys that I thought deserved it. But now I know that the sooner that I allow myself to move through the grieving process (part of which is anger) the sooner that I get to acceptance of what is going on and I can move on with my life. So, you can console yourself at night that you are WAY better off without someone like that in your life, and I always think how grateful I am not to be like that, imagine how shallow and unfufilled an existance this guy must have!!
2006-11-18 05:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the revenge u seek will only hurt u, not him, best revenge is to show him u can move on, find another and be happy. revenge is for him to see u on the arms of another happy and confident not upset and planning revenge. revenge is letting him see u are doing well inspite of the unfair pain he gave u for doing nothing but loving him. be glad u found out about him now, and not after u married him and had children. your one of the lucky ones actually, to have seen how he operates.
2006-11-18 05:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u think u think u are hot and if he did care for u,then fight fire with fire find some of his friends and let him see u at it.Revenge is a dish best served cold,and when u become friends with his then drop lines like there was not that much there,or things like that.But it will only work on him if u can get his friends on your side and u are very hot.
2006-11-18 05:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and make reservations for 2 at an expensive, fancy restaurant. Really expensive. When you call, put the reservations under his name - tell them you are his secretary, and he wants to suprise, maybe propose to his girlfriend, and he wants it special and arrange an expensive bottle of champagne or wine, and flowers on the table. Then call him and tell him you want to try and work things out w/ him, and have him meet you there.
Go to the restaurant. Order steak and lobster, or something equally expensive, then excuse yourself to go to the ladies room. Discreetly tell your waiter to wrap yours up to go, and have it waiting at the door - do not bring it to the table! When you see they have it at the door, stand up and scream "You lowlife! I can't believe you cheated on me with my best friend, then with a stranger! And now you want forgiveness! You are a low life player!" Throw your drink in his face, and storm out! The entire restaurant will be applauding you, and he will be stuck with a big bill on top of the public humiliation. Then you key his car on the way out. Add insult to injury. And keep your chin held high, because you deserve, and can do, better!
Oh - order gay mens mags and have them sent to him at work, call and have his phone disconnected, or his number changed, and if he lives in a house, call and order a load of compost manure delivered and dumped on his front lawn from a gardening landscape supplier. Pay in cash w/ a false name.
2006-11-18 05:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend didnt know you were going out with this guy? sounds like not a true best friend to me,
anyway, why dont you just try and move on. Stressing over this all the time, and thinking over and over about how he treated you wrong, will just make you hurt more and get more angry.
2006-11-18 05:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ambino 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was going to get revenge on a guy I'd go around telling people he used to hit me, a lot of people will be on your side and not believe him whether it's the truth or not. It's kind of lame, but it works.
Other then that just ignore him, evidently your friends learned the hard way just like you did.
2006-11-18 05:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not much of a friend if she didn't know you were going out with him you don't talk to your friends, or bring your bf around them that is kinda hard to beleave, and on the revenge thing darlin grow up, that is for lil kids witch i'm sure you are, just ignore him and move on wit your life......
2006-11-18 05:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If you sink to his level and try to get "revenge," you'll just look psycho. You don't want that.
If he's a jerk who cheats, people will see him for who he really is. Don't make yourself look bad by going out of your way to get him back. Be the bigger person.
2006-11-18 05:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lanani 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋