should i meet her or not?

Question

hello friends,
how r u ?
i am fine,
i have question just solve my problem, if this possible that is big help from u friends,
i have make friendship with a girl by e-mail . i have told her about me, what i am, after researching of 10 days she accept my friendship, first she gives her cell number to me and then i have give my cell number. we had conversation in phone only one time, we didn't see each other, but she wants to meet me tomorrow, what should i do? should i go or not ? coz i am very shy boy, generally not talking with girls.
let me clear one thing here that after 1 month my exam will start, and i 100% sure that if we meet tomorow then after she always coming in my mind and then i cant do my preparation of exam. so what can i do? she loves choclates and teddy bear. what u say people should i go or not?

Answer 1

Maybe you should just meet her.

I wanted to say maybe you should wait until your exams are over. But i thought you will think about her even if you don't meet her now.

Might as well meet her? If she is your type, you arrange to study together or to meet after the exams. If she is not your type, you will not think of her as a partner for the next one month, then you can study well. :)

Answer 2

Yea, go for it. Try to meet in a public place so it will be more comfortable. However this situation would be different for a girl. The girl is not so smart for meeting you in person, because some guys (and im not saying you) have nasty minds. But see if you all are adults, then yea it's a good way to meet a new friend. Good luck.

Answer 3

your ultimate goal was to meet her right? follow thru and do what you actually want to happen.... or it won't happen. it's as simple as that... and bring chocolates and a teddy bear.
after the first awkward few minutes, it may all be easy. try to have fun and not obsess over how shy you think you are. remember her emails and bring up things she has mentioned before to keep the conversation going. best of luck.

Answer 4

Get past your exam first then your free to do as you think is right for you. This is horrible to say but when I was going to college and was going to be graduating I wanted to leave my fiance but didnt want the headaches and have me not be able to focus on my studies so I wanted til I graduated. I had given him plenty of warnings I was going to do this if he didnt change and he decided to ignore them all so when the day came the ring was given back. I graduated and past the exams and moved on.

Answer 5

Tell her to bring a friend, and then you'll bring a friend. That way the meeting is less awkward. Get her a teddy bear.

Answer 6

best to meet in person unable to speak clearly via typing you are. she is big tuna fish is why she meets online. good luck on exam. hope you do not have to type for exam.

Answer 7

You should only meet in a public place with friends around in case she didn't tell you everything about herself like e.g. she is a psycho-killer , or a six ft tall, 50yr.old gay man in drag. You only live once ...so go meet her.

Answer 8

if you know she is going to effect your studies dont meet her.and you know online friendship is not good.. make the right descion... good luck..

Answer 9

go for it. why not you have nothing to loose. she might be that special someone for you. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site

Answer 10

if i would be you get know her more frist he what happen it best wait longer to know each other ok