I really love my girlfriend, I think she is the one. she is a really beautifull person in every way.
Lately it has been dificult to make love, cause she is tired ,just eaten, or not in the mood. I asked her what is wrong and she told me she is not sure she loves me anymore but she is still my girlfriend. help please!!!!
2006-11-18 05:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by pas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it were me, I would take some time apart... if the love isn't mutual, you're only going to get hurt.
2006-11-18 05:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do cuz it's something you have no control on. This is a sign that you should prepare yourself for a breakup anytime soon.
I kinda guessed you're still very young and it's part of the learning process. As much as you think she's the one, after a while you'll meet somebody else that is just great or even better and when you will think back, you'll realize how much of a fool you were when you wasted your time trying to keep this one.
If were me, i'd walk away because if I am in a relationship we both must work on it, not just me. Otherwise, it's a waste of energy and time. Experience taught me that.
Think positive all the time, that is my point.
Hope that helps.
2006-11-18 13:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by ---Ã?--- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one there is no way to MAKE some one love you or fall back in love with you, you just need something, a spark something that will really tell her if she does or she don't, some big romantic thing, be spontanious with it, suprise her, i konw what your next question will be, what shoud i do, but i can't answer that, only you can, cuz only you know what she really likes, what makes her laugh, what makes her smile what turns her on and gets her all horny, and if you do'tn know these things then you best just end it now.........but i'm sure you do and you need to come up with a lil get away or even at home anything that she would never expect, get the glow in her face again, and when all said and done if she do'nt love you, then she never will again or never did from the start.....sorry man, then again she just might fall in love all over again :D
2006-11-18 13:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to bring back that spark in your relationship! Start by being a little mysterious about what you have been up to. Start being a little more active instead of staying home all the time. Go out to coffee shops, foreign movies, or the book store to read magazines. You have to make a commitment on your end too. Do not bring up the idea of sex until she does, and even then, throw a curve ball- "lets go out and talk first"... gets em' every time!
2006-11-18 13:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Big Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i want to say you cant make anyone fall in love ,its either there or its not . you can try to recapture some of the old magic by doing some of the things that brought you to gather in the first place.. if that does not work its time for the big talk find out whats really going on . good luck
2006-11-18 13:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by mothergoose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woof.......that is the hardest thing to combat..if she says she has fallen or is falling out of love with you.
I s'pose you must think about what qualities you have and what things you did to make her fall in love with you and try and do as much to recreate that feeling when it was first working.
Personally, I think it is the beginning of the end .......but I would be very happy to be wrong and you two get back on the right road.
love to you both
2006-11-18 13:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Uri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her her space.
Girls and guys are so different!
Just back off, and let her come to you. Give her some time. If she loves you, she'll be back.
In the meantime, don't change anything else. Treat her as you always have, let her know you love her, but just not all the time. She may be feeling smothered.
2006-11-18 13:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yrself. no matter what you do or say its her mind that is changing. maybe she was never in love with you from the start. all you can do is be you and love her if she cant love you back it would be time to think about moving on. dont stay in a relationship that is onesided. read tips on love and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-18 13:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by yummy _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard..how long have u been with her?...don`t worry pal...give here some space..and if she love you...then he `ll be back...only if she still remember somebody special before you...sorry..i did`nt mean anything but it did happen to me...he..he
2006-11-18 13:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking her out to the first place you went on a date...If it was to a movie rent or buy that movie and watch it together
2006-11-18 13:13:24 · answer #10 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋