you see i've had a boyfriend but we broke up then i got older and when i ask people out they all say know. please gimme some tips on WHAT TO DO!!! p.s. i am Puerto Rican i HAVE TO have a boyfriend! lol jk please lots of tips! thanx!
2006-11-18 05:03:11 · 16 answers · asked by chelsea c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to know you better to tell you what could be wrong. But may be you don't know about guys that much, you can try knowing them better.
2006-11-18 05:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is you are asking people out. Your a chick that does not work well with most men, they say men are manly enuff to handle that but they really not so what you need to do is stop doing what is you been doing in that last couple of years and try something new. For one you could change your attitude about the subject, another is change your friends, get into some hobbies where you likely going to find boys, another is going to concerts you know there is boys there too.
If all fails get plastic surgery...
2006-11-18 13:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by Boby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that either you are either:
- coming on to strong
- coming on to the wrong people
- seem desperate
- word has gotten out that you have an STD
- the fact that you don't know that the opposite of yes is "no" not "know" is keeping anyone with an IQ of over 45 from even considering you
I recommend:
- Learning to love yourself first
- Thinking realistically about who to go after
- Have a fling to relieve the desperation (drunk college boys will do pretty much anyone)
- Go to a doctor for that "personal problem"
- Improve your written language skills
Good luck
2006-11-18 13:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Gabriel D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was you, I wouldn't try so hard. Just wait for the right guy. Better to wait a few years for someone awesome, than to have a different guy who is just OK every month. But if you HAVE to have a boyfriend, just ask out every guy you see, and after about 10 or 20, I guarentee at least one will say yes. It's sad, but that's todays world. Good luck!
2006-11-18 13:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you dont HAVE to have a boyfriend !! You want a boyfriend which is understandable. The best thing to do is just talk to a lot fo guys like you would if you were friends with them, and then ask them out. Find someone that you have something in common with, and date a few guys before you decide on ONE !!
2006-11-18 13:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kissy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just because you are puerto rican you have to have a boyfriend? anyway maybe the people you asked they already like someone else just continue to be yourself and be good and you will find someone
2006-11-18 13:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself and let love come to you, don't be in such a big rush. A lot of people say you need a boyfriend to be happy, but I don't have a boyfriend and I'm quite happy.
2006-11-18 13:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do u have any feeling for a guy? If so then u need to go up to that person and tell that guy how u feel about him. And just be yourself. Don't change for any boy.
2006-11-18 13:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you, where do you live, what do you look like and wanna go out sometime?
2006-11-18 13:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by HOVO 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one, most guys like a girl who puts "NO" instead of "know", but other than that, just be yourself, your probally trying to hard
2006-11-18 13:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck'n Da Deuce 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋