There are 1.3 million abortions every year in the US, greatly caused by teenagers who are irresponsibly getting into relationships and having sex when it is the responsibility of NO teenager to do so.
So after all the pain, heartbreak, and emotional trauma of the past generations, why do young people, even at 13 and 14, continue to join in serious one-on-one relationships and engage in sexual activities? Do they not realize such things are for later years?
2006-11-18 04:58:13 · 11 answers · asked by Derek Southerby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, I *am* a virgin.
2006-11-18 08:13:33 · update #1
I'm sure you're not a virgin, so I'm not going to go there. Let's go with the probable which is more like this: you're in school and you've had your share of "making it" with the girls. I'm not going to get into gory details, because that's not important yet.
Derek, I'll humor you: even though you're aware that the answer to your question is simple. It's fun to have sex. It's more thrilling and more comfortable to have unprotected sex. It's great to ejaculate inside a girl when you are as young as you are. And when you see that poor girl rubbing her stomach (knowing there's a half pint of your semen inside), it makes you feel powerful. You also know better than to exercise your "bragging rights"; you know she'll do your dirty work in that area.
Obviously you either "do your homework" or you're damn "well read". Probably both. You're blessed with talents. Don't mess your life up.
If you go into politics, you'll go far. Maybe you already are involved. I'm asking you to wake up. The word talent, as you surly know comes from the ancient currency unit; stop showing them off and start converting them into greatness. Step number one, give a damn.
2006-11-18 08:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once those hormones hit, teens go nuts and think they know everything. Teens have feelings just like adults but it's more exaggerated in most cases I've seen. I think a lot of teens get caught up in the moment and don't think of the consequences and think they are invincible. There are a lot of irresponsible adults too ya know. (This post above me says she doesn't even think about sex but her name is Hot Sexy Lacey?) I guess teens are confused.
2006-11-18 05:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male brains do no longer mature on the comparable fee. mutually as you may nicely be greater emotionally mature that some, there are others who're nevertheless youngsters. you may nicely be bodily mature sufficient to have intercourse, yet i might say attempt to no longer get too emotionally in contact with the 1st guy you meet or date. that's only inquiring for problem. you have quite some time to take issues added, yet there are too many variations possible on your existence precise now to objective to make any sort of "for something of our lives" form of dedication. So have exciting, additionally be committed to a minimum of one yet another. If that feeling lasts contained in the time of something of extreme-college into college and might survive that, you may nicely be destined to be mutually. i might only have exciting, be very careful and proceed to be friends, whether the different does not artwork out. you nevertheless have a brilliant sort of discovery to do yet. Bret
2016-10-04 02:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are eager to fall in love or just want to be loved. I dont think the parents of today stress the importance of abstinace. Also, the parents are out working two jobs and parental guidance is so much absent today.
2006-11-21 03:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r frisky and think they r ready. they r too anxcious. i hate it. i am 13 and i don't even think about SEX. i mean y is it sooooooooo hard to wait until u r married. if u do have it before u r married then wen u do get married and start to have sex u'll feel guilty about haveing sex bofore this. plus wen u r married u have a lot more advantiges then u'd have when u weren't married.
2006-11-18 05:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by i <3 you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just following the general trend to do these things, because they don't have good examples and teaching from their parents. And they are not taken to church every Sunday where they would learn about morals and obedience to God.
2006-11-18 05:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by songsearcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know i cant give an answer to it, to feel accepeted i suppose?? i never got into that stuff at that age though
2006-11-18 05:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by krista22here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for girls they wanna be loved and want that first love that usually turns into s h i t
for guys its our hormones and horniness
2006-11-18 05:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because this people make a lot of `touch` and kiss that lead to unwelcome desire...you know what i mean....
2006-11-18 05:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HORMONES!!! Needing to be loved and wanted. Been there done that.
2006-11-18 05:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by chicken farmer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋