Just do lots of little things to show her that you love her. Hold her hand in public to show her your not scared of showing other people how much you like her. Believe me, it's the small things that make the difference. Buy her sentimental little things (not expensive). I'm like her, unfortunately! I've been with my guy for 18 months and most of the time I don't believe her loves me. I just need a lot of reassurance, which I admit is extremely hard on my boyfriend. If you are serious about this girl then you have to be prepared to put in an awful lot of effort. Good luck!
2006-11-18 07:08:13
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answered by Jo_Diva 4
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sounds like she has really low self esteem theres not much you can do just be there for her and tell her and show her that you love her the best way you can and try to get her some help
2006-11-18 04:58:13
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answered by dixie 1
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Be patient, 8 months isn't really that long. She might have had a rough experience in the past and so finds it difficult to trust. If you really care for her don't put anymore pressure on. Goodluck.
2006-11-18 04:57:50
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answered by crissylizb06 2
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She's probably just not sure about you yet, just give her some time and don't rush her. Give her care, and love, and be patient. Some people take awhile to realize how much they really love someone.
2006-11-18 04:56:08
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answered by winds_of_justice 4
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you may love her but maybe she is still unsure of you. you soudl just talk to her and get tthe truth out of her. and if she ays shes not sure then dont feel bad! im sure she'll come around =) maybe you soudl ask her if she's afraid of commitment. she ight be. but we dont know her as well as you do .
2006-11-18 05:00:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Don;t act like a sad puppy women kike that but really it turns them right off.Own your own power do not let her have it all.Victorio
2006-11-18 04:59:37
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answered by Victorio 2
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continue to love her - and show it in the way you treat her with respect - hearing the words is nice but the deeds you do are more convincing :)
2006-11-18 04:56:23
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answered by mousie 4
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Some girls that have had bad relationships need constant reassurance. I am one of those gals. Just continue to let her know how you feel.
2006-11-18 04:57:42
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answered by chicken farmer 2
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i had a girlfriend just like that if you keep telling her that she start to believe you and simple things you do will show her that you mean it like keeping your promises ,listening to her ,and remembering to pick her etc i sound like a chick!!!
2006-11-18 04:57:05
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answered by bell 4
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just continue to love her like you do im sure shell come around to realize your the man for her so she shouldnt have to feel afriad
2006-11-18 04:58:57
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answered by Tydie 2
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