i loved someone for 2 years and after one month of engaging each other he decided that iam not a responsible girl n i don't love him . he is refusing to answer my calls n my e-mail , how i can tell him that i changed and i still love him ???
2006-11-18 04:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Lyno . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First be honest with yourself... look hard into your heart.
Make sure your efforts are for all the right reasons and not because he pushed you away and that's hard to take.
If you are serious and think he's worth it then go for it.
Send him a nice invitation for lunch where the two of you can talk.
Don't write anything in the note, just something brief that won't scare him or tick him off.
Be prepared....(this may sound silly) talk to yourself in the mirror how you would speak to him.
Speak from the heart.
If he refuses, he's the jerk and you will find another one that'll be just right for you.
Good Luck!
2006-11-18 04:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Gigi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't.
There are two types of women in the world. Normal ones and psychotic losers. Normal women are who you marry and have children with and invest everything into the marriage and family so that your children have the best chance of growing up well. It requires that your spouse not be an unstable freak.
Psychotic losers exist to provide free sex to random guys and to get pregnant from losers and evil men and raise those children alone (or more to the point, not raise them) so that they grow up to be the next generation of the lower classes. It is a HUGE mistake for a man to invest himself with a woman like this because she is unstable. She will break the union, screw up the kids and destroy everyone's life.
The entire time your man was with you, he was evaluating you. He wanted to know which type of girl you are. And he found out. So, he left. It's not that he doesn't love you, because he probably does. It's that he knows what a huge mistake it would be to marry you and have children with you. Since that could easily happen and be a huge disaster if he sticks around, he left. Also, he doesn't want to waste anymore time with you. He wants to find a normal girl, get married and have a family. He can't do that if he's with you.
2006-11-18 12:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one thing that you should understand is people do not change. even though they think they have it only will last for a little while. you will always return to your comfort zone which is who and what you are. Let him go and move on. I did after a 5 year relationship and i actually am better off
2006-11-18 12:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by leonard h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to change for him because if you have to change for a guy they don't deserve you because he doesn't love you for who you are and he needs to. He must not really love you if he is telling you all this stuff and it's not you. It's him and he is blaming it on you just to get out of the relationship. Don't talk to him just go on and get over him because there are more guys out there they will love you for who you are. It's his fault the relationship is over so if he tries to talk to you after you have tried and tried don't talk to him show him how it feels to be ignored.Just get over him he isn't worth the trouble and you wasting your time!
2006-11-18 12:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a snail mail
2006-11-18 12:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Wxzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know. keep trying he might think your still in love with him and is changed.
2006-11-18 12:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over there to his house, but if hes stubborn like me, he will tell you to take a hike.
2006-11-18 12:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to him face to face
2006-11-18 12:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
action speaks louder than words. do wat u have to do and give ur greatest effort to save ur relatonship. in the end he will understand wat u have sacrifice for and for who
2006-11-18 12:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋