I'm not sure if I'm being used so you tell me what you think. I'm 13 and I'm friends with a guy he just recently started bein all touchy feally with me and I'm ok with that cause I'm a flirt and I like him. But he only REALLY TALKS to me when he wants to be "make-out buddies" which I think is kinda screwed up. I've got guys that ask me out everyday, that are really sweet, (not tryin to brag). But yet I'm waiting for him, what should I do? I might give him to much credit b/c i think maybe he doesn't want things to be weird between us. my friends say he treats me like crap, but I keep telling myself he's just scared to make the first move. Help! and thank-you in advance to those who answer.
2006-11-18 04:41:16 · 18 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it does seem like your friend are right... at least from my view...
maybe you should test him to make sure that he's NOT trying to use you... you never know... he could be...
ask him about it indirectly, or get one of your friends to...
maybe you two just need some space...
but dont let him treat you like that... it's up to you to decide what to do though
good luck... hope everything works out...
2006-11-18 04:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cassia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, first of all you are only 13 and this day and age you guys have such a battle getting through your teen years uncorrupted. The more you act like you are not interested the more he will be interested. If you give in to his make out buddy sessions the more he will expect of you. You have a long way to go in life and many lessons to learn. I know it sounds stupid but the older you get the more you learn. You are going to meet so many boys/men throughout your lifetime. Why not wait for the one who treats you good and will give you the respect you deserve. If you are a make out buddy with him he's going to run his mouth to his friends and then they will talk about you behind your back saying that about you and then other guys will try to do the same thing to you and the numbers add up fast. Then you have this reputation and the good guys will be scared away by that. Take my advice and stay clear of anything other than a friendship with him. Protect yourself and respect yourself, those are the kinds of girls that get to meet the parents.
2006-11-18 12:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by dribble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like all he wants is a make out buddie and that is all your friends are right i would dump him and move on i would start looking at the really sweet guys instead.. and 13 is to young to be making out trust me on this one..its ok for holding hands, light kissing or a once in a while hug.. that is if your parents are ok with it..guys that just want to be around you when you are making out dont really care about you they just want to sleep with you and then they will leave telling all there buddies about what the two of you did
2006-11-18 12:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I'm not sure if you're being used but maybe this guy doesn't want you to be his girlfriend. I think he's just playing with you. You'd better ignore him and be just friends. If you look like your avatar, you're a pretty girl and I'm sure you'll find another guy to love you. And if you notice that the friend you're talking about really cares about you, you should get together.
Good luck
2006-11-18 12:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much too young for this kind of relationship with a boy. Talk to your Mom, if you can, You are loved by your parents, and 13 is to early for this. You may have a friend to go out with, but the relationship should not go that far at your age. You are smart to know that there is something wrong. It is too early, and you are welcome. School is more important now for you than boys. l
2006-11-18 12:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by pooterilgatto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, 13 is too young to be "making out" with anybody. Drop this dude - find a nice boy who wants to be a "nice boyfriend". Don't rush into things before their time - You will get a rep you can't lose
2006-11-18 12:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being used by a selfish lil pig you should stop waiting for him and give one of the nice guys a chance ALL females deserve a GENTLEMAN who will treat them with respect
2006-11-18 12:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by dixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Your welcome :)
2. I wouldn't stay with him, not if he only wants to be near you when he wants to make-out. I know this may seem a bit blunt but it sounds like the only reason he wants to be near you is because your pretty and, because you're a flirt, he's thinking you'll give him a bit..... of something. *Clears throat* So just go with another guy if you don't want to take that route.
2006-11-18 12:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. Stop the touchy-feely make out sessions and just be friends.
2006-11-18 12:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel your being used then remember, your allowing it to happen and you must take responsibility for your part. No one takes advantage of you without your own permission. If you think he's doing this, then he problably is. Your to young for this anyway.
2006-11-18 12:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋