I have been split up with a woman for nearly 3 months in a friends with benefits relationship yet she still occupies most of my thoughts during the day. I try and keep myself busy and do other things/hobbies and treat myself but it's just not working when I start feeling better I think I wish she was here to share it with me
2006-11-18 04:38:02 · 6 answers · asked by ju p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I left her because I found out there were other men involved in relationship
2006-11-18 04:43:24 · update #1
Why did you all split up?? Could it not work out with the 2 of you?? Have you told her how you feel, maybe you should. But if it just won't work out then you'll have to do what all us crazy people do when we love someone and they don't love us back is give ourselves some time and it will heal all the pain. Hope your heart feels better!!!!
2006-11-18 04:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by COURTNEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R SAYING THAT U LOVED THAT GIRL ...SO TELL ME 1 THING HOW CAN U EVEN THINK TO GET HER OUT FROM UR MIND........B4 IT I WOULD LIKE TO ASK ,IF IT WAS REALLY THE TYPE OF LOVE THAT U DESCRIBED...THEN HOW CAN U LEAVE HER SO EASILY...HOW SHE CAN GO...LOVE IS NOT ABOUT LEAVE N TAKE ..RIGHT..U SEEM TO B A TRUE LOVER N GREATELY AFFECTED...I DONT KNOW HOW THIS BREAK UP HAPPENED..BUT IF SHE REALLY DID BREAK UR TRUST THEN WHY U R MAKING UR LIFE A HELL....I KNOW I MAY SOUND RUDE,,BUT THE THING IS U WERE NOT RESPONSIBLE 4 WHAT HAS HAPPENED THEN WHY CURSE URSELF.............ACCPT THE FACT THAT BOTH OF U R NOT TOGATHER ANY MORE, LOVE IS JUST A PART OF LIFE N U JUST CANT SPOIL UR LIFE 4 ANY BODY ..U GOT A LIFE SO LIVE IT FULL..ACCPT THE FACT ..DONT RUN AWAY FROM IT AS U R RUNNING FROM URSELF..FACE IT N COME OUT AS A WINNER..start somethin new n refreshing..wish to b with someone who really deserve ur love...start a new day with new thoughts...
2006-11-18 13:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by liferocks786 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's into someone else let her go,if she cheated on you she's not worth your time anyway. Try to get on with your life healing will begin when you least expect it I promise. And you know what they say, "if you love something set it free, if it comes back its yours,if it does not it never was." There's someone out there just for you. :) Be sweet
2006-11-18 12:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she leave you or did you leave her? Sounds to me like she is more than a friend with benefits to you. Sounds like love to me. Talk to her.
2006-11-18 12:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must develop such a pure love for mankind that she only becomes a small piece of what love means to you
2006-11-18 12:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by givenrhythm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember the bad thing she did to you and you will not want to think of her
2006-11-18 12:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋