How does a lady know if it is going to continue, or he got what he wanted, and is not interested anymore?
2006-11-18 04:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by ladyleo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll come back for more. If sex was the goal and you give freely then why worry. What is to be shall be. However if you 'put-out' just to satisfy him, then chances are you either enjoyed it or felt obligated to do so. If it's the latter, then I'm sure he didn't enjoy the ride and will probably not be back.
I know this may sound harsh and not 'PC', but here goes. Relationship are based on trust, friendship and commonality. Sex is sometimes the goal, another for the books. So what I prefer is to get the 'deed' done at the onset. With that out of the way I can work on the rest of a relationship, if there is to be one.
2006-11-18 04:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, he might start distancing himself away from you. Those unanswered phone calls, listless talks, preoccupation with other stuff, appointments that suddenly become really important... Also the manner o interaction could change. Less physical contact, not looking into the eyes when he says that he loves you, concentration on getting it rather than cuddling and hugging and sharing intimate moments. He could forget dates or could suddenly become more engrossed in his work or his activities. That is when you can assume that he got what he wanted and isn't interested anymore. In such situations, it is best to dump him and move on and not just become an object of satisfaction.
2006-11-18 04:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kind of really hard to assume , but the best way to know is to be observant of his body language and interest level.
After sleeping together was he just as nice to you as before, is he still asking questions about you after the date or during the whole date, is he excited to see you and he still prefers your company over others?, remains affectionate and eager to help you when you're in trouble?...if yes, its gonna continue.
2006-11-18 04:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lady doesnt know...
do what i did and get his friend to dish-out the dirt for u as ur 'inside mad' and know exactly when hes gonna do it and break^ with him first,i got a picture of him and teard it up into little peices then put it in his hand and said "i have something to give you.." then got his hand and put it in "i feel bad for the next girl you play..."
i totally burned him,..and u will too.hahaha
then tell everyone u broke up with him first!!!
2006-11-18 04:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if hes not as he used to be, like if he doesnt show as much affection or doesnt hug you or be affectionate, then he doesnt want to keep going. but if hes just the way as he was before or even more, then he wants to keep going
2006-11-18 04:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Saya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel the "distance" being created by the other person. They are more subtle, less engaging. It's kinda freaky, Because you can feel it.
2006-11-18 04:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like you don't care, he's probably yours forever. Try not to show you care too much.
2006-11-18 04:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bird lady
2016-05-22 01:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont no. thats why you dont give him what he wants until your sure that its not the only thing hes looking for.
2006-11-18 04:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only know this:
If he's cheating you...its time to break up...
2006-11-18 04:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋