i have two men that have quite strong feelings for me.i obviously cannot date both of them but i dont know which one to chose they are both very sweet. should i spend some time with them both then decide or just simply let one down. HELP
2006-11-18 04:33:27 · 29 answers · asked by FlossyQ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-18 04:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Date both of them (obviously at separate times/days). Once you become close to one of them or have sexual relations then it's time to end it with the other one. You have done nothing wrong until there is a commitment between you and one of them. Just think of them as friends for a while, then decide after getting to know them.
2006-11-18 04:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem with going on a date with both guys - just don't sleep with either of them... lol
See which one you get on with best. You never know, one could you be your soul mate. That's the only reason I'm saying go on 1 date which each guy.
Good luck. Hope you find the guy you are looking for.
2006-11-18 04:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask one to come over in the morning and then make sure he stays a long time spending a lot of time with someone can help you see the real them.
2006-11-18 04:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by evergirl_890 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay friends with both for a couple of weeks and go on dates alternating guys! Just be sure to let them know there not the only one! Then your desicion should be easier on who truly makes you happy and is absolute fun to be with! Good Luck
2006-11-18 04:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by lil mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answered your own question there didn't you?
No rule says you have to date just one. No rule says you have to pick one without knowing if you like traits about the other more.
Spend time with both of them. Get to know what you want to know about them. Chances are the answer will lie there somewhere. Neither might not be right for you.
Good luck!
2006-11-18 04:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd get to know them both and then decide which one that you like. I don't see any harm in getting to know them both and then deciding because they is no guarantee that once you get to know them you will want to date them. You might just decide that you would rather have them as friends. Just get to know them with no romantic gesture in mind and then make a decision
2006-11-18 04:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with each of them,talk to them each. When you hang out with each of them see which one treats you the best because that is what you need a man to treat you right. Then once you do these just follow your heart on which guy to go with.Good Luck!
2006-11-18 04:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with both until you're ready to make a decision.
Why can't you date both of them? As long as you make it clear you don't want an exclusive realtionship, I see no problem with that.
Good luck - and I hope you choose the right one :-)
2006-11-18 04:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date both of them. If you aren't committed to someone then you are free to date who you want. Men do it all the time. Take time to see how he treats his mother and/or sisters. Apples don't fall from the trees.
2006-11-18 04:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy... It is now the time to ask difficult questions during your future life. Write down what do you expect from him to treat you and how they would control their anger during hard times. Find which one can handle more stress. Most men who are true men has the most tolerant. Few good men are hard to find, make sure he never ask you to borrow money from you, that's a bad sign. More independent he is the more you can depend on him. That's how I got my wife!
2006-11-18 04:42:05 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋