My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . Will he again mesg or contact me???
2006-11-18 04:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a pattern of psychosis and unfortunately, he will contact you again. If you are really afraid of him, go to the police and have a restraining order written up...Then if he contacts you in any way, the law will take care of him. Without a restraining order, the law can't help you, until it's too late.
2006-11-18 04:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, this is serious, and it could get worst. The best thing to do is stop all contact with him for good. There is no love in this relationship, its all sickness. he needs help and he is very insecure. you ned time for yoursef, and if you are talking to other guys thats none of his bussiness you two are no longer together. Abuse is very popular amoung society today. He is making threats towards you and you can get him in trouble legally, which is what i would do. talk to a trusted adult immediately about this. save the text message for now on and build a case. you should not be scared. stay strong, and is he touches you, abuse his a**, I would not take this from him at all, do not tel him u r scared, therefore he knows ur weakness. Do not talk to him anymore. I hope ypu get help soon, and stay strong babe. There is a possibilty he is going to contact and message you again, but do what i said. God Bless!
2006-11-18 04:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really concerned for your safety, call your local police station and request info on a restraining order. Sometimes you can even set them up to where the abuser is charged for the cost. But above all else, stop sending emails back!!! That is just adding "fuel to the fire".
Good Luck!!
2006-11-18 04:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by sabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly afraid of this man, than you need to go to the police, or courthouse and file a restraining order. If he texts you, that is in direct offense of the order, and he will be punished. Be sure to keep any texts that he sends you to offer up as evidence that he is threatening to harm you. Protect yourself, even if it means going to stay somewhere that he won't be able to find you for a little while. Good luck. if you need to talk, you can e-mail me at cel_n_cam@yahoo.com
2006-11-18 04:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by camandizmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I gotta be honest-not the best move to be caught dancing with another guy, even if you didn't have cheating intentions. When it comes to things like that, y'all gotta discuss it before you do it. That aside, there is no reason for him to do what he did. I'd suggest changing your number, and if all else fails, go to the cops and get a restraining order preventing him from contacting you. A guy this aggressive, maybe breaking up with him was a blessing in disguise for you.
2006-11-18 04:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dale H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Tell your parents or tell the police. Turn his emails over to them if need be. If there IM's make sure you save them,if you do not know how to do this find out. Stop responding to his messages and alert someone before it's to late. And yes until you stop him he will continue to contact you. This is very serious seek help at once. Please!!!
2006-11-18 04:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, yes. Since you told him that him scares you he will continue to prey on you. Tell your parents or some other adult you trust if you think he is serious. Don't go anywhere alone in case you run into him until you get this straightened out.
2006-11-18 04:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you speaking in terms of mental abuse or physical abuse? why are you still communicating with this person. and why aren't you notifying the police instead of asking this question? if you value your life, you need to be getting that done right now. who you go out with is none of his business and if he broke up with you because you were dancing with a guy, then you know he is a nut. both of you need help. him because he is going to actually get his hands on you and hurt you. you because you are excepting this behavior towards you, it is not cute or "he loves me, because he wants to hurt me". go to the police now!!!!
2006-11-18 04:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unload him NOW. you do no longer would desire to submit with a guy who abuses you and considers you to be "very much low priced," particularly once you will desire to tell him to maintain removed from you. He does this because of the fact you have submitted your self to him, and now you will desire to stop. If he texts you back, only overlook approximately it.
2016-10-15 17:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by boatright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
dont worry...just be stable...
to get away from somebody the best thing is to IGNORE HIM......DONT REPLY TO ANY MESSAGES......
he msgs u..ignore them...he'll stop on his own...
he is only trying to scare u thats it....and he has seen u have become scared...he'l do extreme stuff if he knows u r weak..get over it..
BE BOLD BE STRONG FOR GOD IS WITH YOU
God bless
lee
2006-11-18 04:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋