I went on a first date with a guy from England, last night. At the end all he said is "I had fun, take care." We seemed to have a good time. Good conversations on the phone and not any real acwardness. I wasn't blown away by him, but liked him enough to give a second chance and then he said "it was nice meeting you, I had a great time, take care". What does this all mean? Did he really not like me? He didn't suggest another date. I've never experienced this kind of rejection (from someone I just met).
2006-11-18 04:09:10 · 19 answers · asked by doodle03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest, I think you should talk to him about it. If he's from a different country than you, his culture will be different, and certain words or deeds may have different meanings to what you are used to.
Just ask him. If he says he's not interested, at least you know, and can move on.
2006-11-18 04:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem upset over someone you "weren't blown away with."
Maybe he wasn't blown away with you either. Not sure your age, but, after a first date you know. There's a certain wonderful feeling you have in your gut. You're excited. You know that feeling and maybe he wasn't feeling it either.
Men are more apt to not waste their time on second and third dates. For what? If it didn't happen on the first date, it surely won't happen on the second or third. (you must either have a lot of time on your hands, don't go out much, or are just bored and need a new friend.)
If that doesn't help, then my only other suggestion is to call him and ask him out for another date. You did say he was from England, maybe that's how they end dates in England.
I think the rejection has you confused. Maybe he just wansn't feeling you! period! move forward....
2006-11-18 04:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tracyi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take what he said at face value. You went on a first date, you got to know each other a little bit, he had a great time and a good conversation. For all you know, maybe he liked you so much that he fumbled his words at the end of the date and he really meant to say "I'll call you" or something like that? Who knows, maybe that's just how he ends first dates also? It doesn't sound like anything you did. If you want to go on a second date with him, be patient, wait until the weekend ends and it's Monday, see if he's called by then. If not, wait until mid-week like Wed. and then consider calling or text messaging him.
2006-11-18 04:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was moving on to me but you know other people from other country are a little different maybe try to give him a call and see if he pick's up the phone but you also sound like it wasn't great so maybe you do not want to even worry anout him either, So many fish in sea I too am looking good luck
2006-11-18 04:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a 5'2" girl... Usually I like guys who are tall like 5'9" to 6'2" , so yes
2016-05-22 00:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way he was acting I wouldn't expect another phone call. Sorry for your bad luck. But if you really aren't that into him like you just said you weren't then don't waste either one of your time by pushing on with the relationship anyway. By the end of it, if you end up getting married or something, you won't be happy.
2006-11-18 04:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not rejection. You cant hit a home run every time. If you liked him and he didn't like you, big deal. You are who you are and the only person you have to impress is yourself. So don't beat yourself up if your not his type, I'm sure you have met guys that just weren't for you right. be sweet be honest be your own best friend. :)
2006-11-18 04:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It just means that he didn't feel a 'connection' but I am sure he enjoyed you as a person, but probably not as a mate. Good luck with all your other dating experiences, and remember to have fun, and not be so serious minded!
2006-11-18 04:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by pumpkin_spice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends!How old?How old emotionally? Did you get a feel for that he was mature. Are you living at home with pa rants? or In a flat? You are not specific enough for a proper answer. Based on what was given "JUST MOVE ON"
2006-11-18 04:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by gerry m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say "take care" by force of habit,it does not mean he didn't like you, however,it seems to me you did not really like him that much anyways.
2006-11-18 04:13:45 · answer #10 · answered by bearcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋