ok...there is this guy from church...i like him ALOT...i think he likes me...but idk...he flirts w/ me...and i flirt w/ him back...weve been friends for like 6 yrs...and every sunday in church i sense someone staring at me...then i look up...the guy that i like is staring at me...then he looks away real fast...it happens all through church...i want 2 go out w/ him...im thinking of having my best friend do it...but idk...i would do it myself...but im too much of a wimp...should i have my friend do it...o ya...im a freshman (14) and hes an 8th grader (14 also)...we are from different schools though...im in a musical tonight...should i ask him to come...or is it too late of notice...what do i do??...what should i do about this whole deal w/ me and him??...and do u think he likes me??...please help...thanks
2006-11-18 04:04:25 · 12 answers · asked by lil_hott_stuff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you can stay shy the whole time and never say a thing to him or you can take it upon yourself and do it right. Go to him when mass is over and say I have seen you here a few times and want to know if this is the time you come all the time and would like to set next to you or even give him your number. give it a try. Or you can ask your mother what to do.
2006-11-18 04:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, if you wait the opportunity will pass you by and you will be left wondering what could have happened, and I'm sure you have probably heard that millions of times and maybe even some other people have answered that way *i didn't really read though all the answers* but you have to be daring and aggressive to get what you want otherwise the moment will "just pass you by" don't have your friend do it, i think that to a guy that would be a major turn off, but i could be wrong that is just my opinion. Gather up your courage and ask him out, the worst thing he could do is say no, and you don't go to the same school so it really wouldn't matter. But it sounds like all you need to is not be afraid after all you have known him for 6 years, and don't be afraid of him saying no if he does then you'll be heart-broken for a few days and move on and realize that you're better off just as friends then bf and gf
hope that helped....and made sense....
2006-11-18 22:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by shannymyhomeboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the look of things, you are far from a "wimp." Him, on the other hand, is.
If this guy don't have the edasity to come and talk to you, if I were you, I would even bother. This is not the behavior that you want to see in a man.
The motto in life is: when you see something you want, go get it. Nothing will not come to you.
He would not even be a provider for you and your family. He will see a good job or career that he wants, but the job or career is not going to walk up to him an d tap him on his sholder and say "Hey, here I am."
He is obiviously not ready, yet. You should move on and if he takes too long and misses out on you, tough luck.
Hope this answers your question!
2006-11-18 12:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by bkdaniels2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like the beginning of a fairytale, gives me tingles. I suggest that, yes! Ask him to see your performance! Go on, call now before he makes other plans. Ask him to come and maybe ask him to coffee or snacks afterwards, say something like, "I'm glad you came, it sure is nice to have someone close to me be in the audience...makes me feel better" stuff like that, maybe that will encourage him to ask you. This guy, I think, likes you back and all he needs is encouragement, so give lots of it. It will help.
2006-11-18 12:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it seems as though he really likes you cause guys try really hard usually to not look at a girl all the time unless they cant help themselves so i believe he does like you
but DO NOT have your friend ask him out for you almost every guy including me hates it when the girl wont ask him out and to his face not in a note or online
and then definetly ask him to come to your musical im sure hed love to go even if its late notice
2006-11-18 12:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Matt Koz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games and have your friend do it. It will cause you feelings of jealousy and resentment, plus you will send him the wrong message and he might end up thinking that you don't like him and your friend does. It might backfire, and your friend could end up liking him and he liking her. Bad idea.
Better idea: Let him know about the musical, tell him you'll look for his face in the crowd. Act like you presume that he will attend. And, if he does, let him know about any after-parties, or make one up.
2006-11-18 12:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mention that your in a musical tonight to him. Or just ask him out.
2006-11-18 12:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by itsALICE! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and thinks he likes you, why not ask him? You are still young. Don't let your friend go out with him, ask him out yourself.
2006-11-18 12:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse sweety he likes u,someday call on him n tell him in ur plain words,,n request him to not to make ur fun as it wud hurt u ,n tell him u like him,,,,more tahn flirt ure expecting somehting else also fromhim.....
2006-11-18 12:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he cant say maybe another time and ask him another time with a little notice sometimes little notice is better
2006-11-18 12:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by dmtll2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋