2006-11-18 04:02:42 · 14 answers · asked by Kaylin 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sure a lot of people do...
2006-11-18 04:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by KED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the unhappy element is that you get carry of married and live which include his mom. it really is a tricky situation for each person, even if you loved her to initiate, you're certain to get on one yet another's nerves. he's put in the middle - a good more durable situation. He can't change on his personal mom, yet he has to contemplate you. NO - in case you married him, you should love him - so provide him a threat. the proper element should be to set a purpose of a time once you are able to stay except for his mom, then you actually both paintings flat out as hell - even it skill 2 or extra jobs - to get out and examine out this. It takes time and paintings for a courting to advance solid and extremely last. tutor him that he's worth that. he's no longer desirous to leave you - he basically needs to no longer should be stuck interior the middle. concentration rather on what's sweet - about him, about the belongings you want to do, about life - or perhaps about his mom. and then paintings in direction of the purpose of transferring out. the faster the further valuable threat you've of fulfillment.
2016-10-16 09:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by nelems 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of my parents, but especially my mother, are very insecure, unhappy and evil people. Over the years there have been countless disappointments and transgressions.
Finally, I 'divorced' them and have absolutely nothing to do with much of my family.
Funny thing, I am happier, healthier, and much more secure in the rest of my relationships.
It was the best thing I have ever done.
2006-11-18 04:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by motherless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please what person who has not gone into adulthood had a parent they have struggled to "get along with"?
often times the family member we have the hardest time dealing with in time is the person we most likely end up being most like .....
mothers tend to take the hardest rap I believe because they are the ones who have invested the most into our lives ....... let's take a look - carried you to birth while enduring various occurances, was there for you in some form during your growing up years regardless of your activities, choices of friends and outcome....was there for you during illnesses, injuries, heartbreaks, heartaches, successess and failures.....most likely the one to stand by you even when does not agree on your stand.....
time with any loved one is precious and only God knows the length of time.......
stop worrying so much about how you agree and appreciate that you are!
2006-11-18 04:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mothers always think good thing abt their kids, theres no mother that wanna smething bad for their children. pls do understand that. IM a mother, my daughter hv some problem with me too, juz coz i said no with hp at nite, im thinking abt the way that she on the phone, and the next day is the school day, she is sleepy at school... am i wrong. im thinking about her education. her future,... juz thhink twice if u have a fight with yr mother.
2006-11-18 04:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is pretty normal to have parents who it is tough to get along with... according to buddhist teachings.... parents are karmic enemies from the past! and the reason we are meet again in such a context is to resolve the hatred and the negativeness of previous life with the relationship parent child....
if we are not getting alone with them... we should still be respect ful and thankful for them because they gifted us our precious human body....but better stay away and be in good terms, than close and arguing all the time
2006-11-18 04:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dakini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to, but after I had a baby, she was there 100%. Now I can't get enough of her!
Now I do have a mother-in-law I can't stand...
2006-11-18 04:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, oh sure. Just hang in there, and remember that she gave you life and yada yada yada....
Not to take it too seriously right now, it is a long life, I don't always get along with my kids either,but I love em...bettin she love you too. not getting along sometimes is normal. good luck
2006-11-18 04:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! omfg! she's always been overprotected.
i was not allowed to cut with a butterknife until I was 11
was not allowed to cross our own street until i was 13
not allowed to have a job
not allowed to babysit at my house to get a job
not allowed to stay after school
& she's just a total *****
2006-11-18 04:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, I tolerate her because it's Gods way but I can not get along with her...
2006-11-18 04:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have to keep my relationship very superficial with her or her feelings get hurt very easily.
2006-11-18 04:09:44 · answer #11 · answered by SuzieQ92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋