got drunk at the weekend with my friend and her friend, we were having a good night untill i felt i was getting picked on by both of them. so i left in abit of a state. i decided to go for a walk and ended up at my mates ex boyfiends house. i slept with him and it was good. im trying to forget about it but its hard. he still goes round my friends house and tells her he loves her what do i do ? tell her and loose my friendship. or not say anyhing cause i no she doesnt want him anyway?
2006-11-18 03:55:39 · 16 answers · asked by jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep you mouth shut!
What's the point in involving your friend in something that makes no real difference? You didn't sleep with her current boyfriend - that would have been really bad. You did it with her ex, someone you say she's not interested in any more. I'm not sure that's much of problem.
What's the point in telling her about it? You'd just be causing possible trouble for nothing.
Could it be that you want to tell her in order to make your conscience feel better? And not because you think it's the "right" thing to do.
You've done something you feel you shouldn't have done. You just have to live with that and get on with your life.
Hope it all works out for you :-)
2006-11-18 04:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you slept with your friends ex because you felt liked you was being picked on so you did it out of revenge. And you bragging about how it was is uncalled for that right there shows that you meant doing it and you don't care. Just because hes an ex and she don't want him any more doesn't make it right, it don't matter if she don't want him you shouldn't want him either. Even though he,s an ex hes also your friends ex and that makes it worst. Tell her what happen. But if I was her I would forgive you but I wouldn't trust you or be your friend anymore.
2006-11-18 04:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by thea_bry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were drunk and you went there and he took advantage of you in that situation .So he shouldnt be really in love with your friend and I think you're not a very good frind either (i am sorry to say)I dont know if its right to tell your friend about it but you can tell her that he is not faithful without telling all the details about the night he spent with you.
2006-11-18 04:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell simply because I would be eaten up with guilt if I didn't. If she is a true friend she will forgive you, after all it is only an ex.
2006-11-18 04:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by KED 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had your revenge - sleeping with your mate's ex. Say nothing to anyone - & don't get drunk again, or you may just end up blurting it out!!!
2006-11-18 04:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well! you were drunk! he was sober!!! and he slept with you anyway! he cant love her as much as he says otherwise he would have helped you home not help you have sex!
you should tell your friend b4 he does and just say im really sorry. thats all you can do really hon. xXx
2006-11-18 04:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me i would pluck up courage and tell her. It's better to be honest and upfront she is your friend and a good friend will understand if you didn't tell her and she found out from elsewhere then that would be detrimental to your friendship! GOOD LUCK
2006-11-18 04:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by emma b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i slept with my best mates ex, she would never speak to me again. Its an unwritten law!
If you don't tell her, can you live with yourself? I couldn't. I would tell her and hope she can forgive you.
Good luck with what ever you decide to do.
2006-11-18 04:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that it good but you didnt say if you like him, i dont think you should do anything because it shoulds like the guy still likes you friend and you would lose alot of friends if you do say something.
2006-11-18 04:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by xx angel 3m xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is her ex.
it would be alot worse if they were still together.
fess up. say sorry loads.
but start with the words on saturday night after i left i bumped into your EX...
2006-11-18 03:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋