okay, i have become very sexually active in the past month or so and find i have a real love of men that are really 'endowed,' the bigger the better. especially in the 'thickness' department.
a girlfriend of mine was complaining that she hooked up with a guy who looked like he had a soup can down there.
i ended up doing it with him and thought it was the greatest night of my life.
why can't i be considered 'liberated' and 'sexually healthy?'
2006-11-18 03:43:23 · 24 answers · asked by mari_the_explorer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all the support. yes. i am safe. and i just keep getting sh*t from some who think i'm just a size queen (girls more than guys, actually).
yea, it's just a preference. i just want to have fun while i am young and before i settle down.
and whoever said that a guy that has a big one doesn't necessarily know how to use it is full of bull-...
i have had some REALLY big guys who had skillz to spare...
2006-11-18 04:10:06 · update #1
um...do as you wish as long as no one gets hurt
2006-11-18 03:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know you but I'm glad you had fun. Sure, you're liberated and sexually healthy because you know what you want and not afraid of saying so. I don't think there's nothing wrong with your preference, its a preference, and we all have 'em. If other guys say that it seems unfair, I don't think so, cause they also have preferences. Some like blondes more than brunettes, you prefer them "big" more than medium...nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-18 12:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your very liberated and definately sexually healthy. And I can imagine that most women like the soup can affect. Why do you suppose that all the african american men and latin men get all the hot chics. Caucasion males seem to be the outcast these days and it could be the end of the line for caucasion males lol
2006-11-18 11:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to adhere any labels,. sex is a great gift the only thing is that we need to learn how to be RESPONSIBLE about it, and make sure that we do not put our life at risk by engaging on irresponsible activities. Besides that girl rock on!!! if that is your choice and it is what you enjoy well, so be it. Just make sure that you don't put no one down because of not been as thick as a can of soup.
2006-11-18 11:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you just answered your own question, yes you are liberated. And there's nothing wrong with what you like, if you can handle that so go have fun, the important thing here is you don't hurt anyone else.
2006-11-18 11:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by macky boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, but it sounds a little shallow to me. Also, 'liberated' is just another way of saying 'slutty'. And yes, I think guys can be sluts, too. There's more to life than sex, and there's more to a relationship than physical.
Besides, how does one decide which guy to go out with? It's rather impolite to ask about a man's size when you've just met, don't you think?
2006-11-18 11:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to be horny, just not with 1000's of men. You say you became sexually active in the past month and you already have more than one sex partner? (Gross.) I hope you are protecting yourself from diseases. Pick one guy and only sleep with him, try to find out if he's sleeping around too. Remember, you can get diseases like herpes and genital warts even with condoms. Plus no method of protection is 100%.
2006-11-18 11:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't be considered liberated and sexually healthy because people who are like that just enjoy sex and you said that size matters in their opinion size doesn't.
2006-11-18 11:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by adgshanice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with enjoying a big man...after all...you have to be able to feel it, right? No, seriously, as long as you are happy, why cares what anyone else thinks? Good luck!
2006-11-18 11:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Gaby A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong. Try a horse next time.
2006-11-18 11:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure no one gets lost .
2006-11-18 11:51:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋