ok...there is this guy from church...i like him ALOT...i think he likes me...but idk...he flirts w/ me...and i flirt w/ him back...weve been friends for like 6 yrs...and every sunday in church i sense someone staring at me...then i look up...the guy that i like is staring at me...then he looks away real fast...it happens all through church...i want 2 go out w/ him...im thinking of having my best friend do it...but idk...i would do it myself...but im too much of a wimp...should i have my friend do it...o ya...im a freshman (14) and hes an 8th grader (14 also)...we are from different schools though...what should i do about this whole deal w/ me and him??...and do u think he likes me??...please help...thanks
2006-11-18 03:34:43 · 16 answers · asked by lil_hott_stuff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be courageous and walk up to him, have a proper communication based on honesty.
I can't tell if he likes you though, but it seems to be worth a shot.
2006-11-18 03:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Stone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are much too young to be worried about all this stuff so much, this is your time to have fun.
Just do it, strike a conversation after church, about anything, maybe even better about what the priest or preacher talked about during mass or service. Then after that just exchange phones and call each other and see next Sunday in church and also even sit together. Have fun !!!
2006-11-18 11:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be better if you just found him around church after church, and walk up to him and say hi, if you have been friends for 6 years it shouldn't be too hard to just talk to him hint in the convo you like him, firlt with him if he do'nt ask you by the time you both say bye, just start walking away and then turn around and yell HEY BTW...walk but up to him and say....you want to go out some time, when he sayz yes, thre you go you can get him alone and really talk bout it and the school thing don't worry bout that, you should be worried but school when in school not your BF.....
2006-11-18 12:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 a very early age having a relation. Well if u like that guy u can have a coffee or teo together , but dont go too ahead.
I wish u all the good luck!
Cheers,
Tutul
2006-11-18 11:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tutul C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make a causual date with him. maybe do something you guys have in common. They you could initiate physical contact. Actions speak louder than words and I think it is easier than like popping a question. You know cause if you say hey you want to go on a date first of it is hard to do and second it puts pressure on him. so just make it causual and use body language. good luck and enjoy your youth!
2006-11-18 11:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by da-chi-town-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note and pass it to him, then he isn't put on the spot and if he's interested he'll let you know. If he's not, then you'll also know. He must think your cute if he keeps staring at you all during church, make sure to include your phone number.
2006-11-18 11:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by dribble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the feelings are mutual between you but I would go for it myself not sending a friend makes you seem more confident
2006-11-18 11:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like he does like you, but please whatever you do don't send your friend to talk to him. And if you're that scared to talk to him, then you wouldn't have much of a relationship if you did get with him. Don't be scared. Just talk to him and find out if he likes you too. The worst he can say is no, but that doesn't sound like the case.
2006-11-18 11:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Karma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, He can't keep his eyes off of you - so that means he likes you! I would like to see your friend help you out - have her give you a pep talk ( like coaches do their football teams) ... and if you can't get up the gumption to ask him out then get your friend to do it...just please let him know even if you have to pass him a note! Love will find a way so go for it ...ok?...good luck to you..bye bye
2006-11-18 11:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u've liked him for 6 yrs??? and now ur 14??? id say grow up a bit b4 u get into that
2006-11-18 11:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by MAB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋