if you knew you would see your mother only 1 more time alive?

Question

what would you say to her? what would you want her to know? what would you want to know?
i'm having a hard time knowing that i will probably only see my mommy one more time before she dies. i'm crying all the time for no reason. out of the blue - driving down the road with nothing on my mind and i just start crying...WTF. i want it to stop. what do i tell her? i'm going crazy .........

Answer 1

Tell her what's in your heart. Tell her you love her and thank her for being there for you when you needed her. Talk about the good times, forget the bad. There is nothing wrong with crying, if I lost my mom, I would be lost as she is who I call when I just want to talk or when my son does something crazy. Time heals the heart, although you will never not miss her, each day will get easier. Don't focus on her dying, focus on her life. Hugs to you.

Answer 2

This is grief, It is a natural part of loss... No, you are not crazy. When you see her tell her how much you love her, what your favorite memory (s) of her from when you were a child. what things she taught you that you will never forget.......Talk to her, or not - just try to in joy what ever time you have left with her. If there is something you need to say then tell her. The grieving proses is often long and you will find It comes in waves (like you have been experiencing ) and you will go through a lot of different emotions, sometimes sorrow then apathy,then even anger or hopelessness. these are all very normal. What I would like you to do is talk with a grief counselor if you feel it is getting out of control, this is also very normal, sometimes people need help dealing with loss- it is not something most societies deal with well. You also might try a preacher or pastor ( what ever is in your belief system- if you are so inclined.) In the long run remember that your mom will want you to be happy eventually, so strive for that - when you have done grieving and always talk to her, even when she is gone,- it is a small token to some but it will help you feel a little still connected. I am so sorry that this is going on in your life, and wish you well. Please take care.

Answer 3

My mom died in 01, if I had one last chance to tell her how wonderful I thought she was. I would... and I did. Every night before bed, we'd sit up and talk about everything. I told her all the time how much I loved her and how much I would miss her. She always told me that we will see eachother again and not to worry because she will always be with me in one form or another. I MISS those conversations and it kills me to think about it. the one thing I def regret is NOT speaking at her funeral and not sharing all my wonderful stories of her with the 500 people that showed up. She did so much in her short life for others... I just wish I could share what she did for me. Good question.

Answer 4

Tell her how much you care about her. Tell her how much you don't wanna lose her. Ask her how she feels about you. Tell her how you can't get down the road thinkin the next day she might not be there and you wanna know how she feels. Just follow your heart and only your heart can make that kind of decision. Hope this helps