Well, I used to be frends with this girl last year, we became quite close. But then, I asked her out, and she said no :(... since then, I slowly have started speaking to her again, but it is ok, but not the same as before. The thing is, i really, really still like her, and the problem is all i can think about is asking her out again. But the problem is, I'm not the most good looking guy...So please can anyone help me with getting her to like me, and getting closer to her...Wat should I say??? Do you guys think its worth it? It's hard to go out in high school...
2006-11-18 03:26:37 · 13 answers · asked by Guy_33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u think that a person always like the person who is good looking then it is not true the people who do so never get the right person , it all depends about the person what he or she feels. U must be what u r not change for the person who is not having the feelings for u and if u says that u want her back it all depends that what type of nature of that person. I think if it will be urs then she will definately come to u again , if she really wants u in her life and if she dont want i dont think u must force her which will be perfect for both of u , as i think just let her made her decision and i think u must trust yourself and ur love and if it is true it will definately come to u let it be fly in the sky . hoping good for u and for ur future ... bye
LUCKY
2006-11-18 03:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks have nothing to do with a matter of the heart. It doesn't hurt to try and if I was you I would go for it. The saying love is blind is the best saying ever! So quit cutting yourself down and thinking your looks have anything in this because they don't. I would definetly give it another shot. but if she says no a second time then just enjoy her friendship its better than nothing! Hey you never know she may want to date you but feels she missed her chance
2006-11-18 11:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by crazy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation is where nobody could help u except God or she herself...it doesn't matter if you are not goolooking, if u're good at character wise n quite smart at looks n nature,n try to get a little humourous nature which girls like a lot in boys.....don't make an attempt from ur side till u suspect shes going with somebodyELSE...if it comes then u tell her plainly...in ur own natural style,,,plain words...otherwise theres no need tohurry yar...first try to strenghthen ur bond so much so that she herself might not feel like to get u away from her....all the best
2006-11-18 11:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by kawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't be worried about your looks.have you tried finding out what she feels about you?first find out if she is interested in you from her friends.if she is not interested then better don't ask her out coz you might loose her as a friend too. but if she is interested then go ahead & as her out.but do something that will impress her. ALL THE BEST.
2006-11-18 11:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by kareen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out again and explain to her that all can do is think abotu her and u really care 4 her
2006-11-18 11:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by skaterboarder zachary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has already said NO so accept that --- how you look is not the important part --- its how you treat her --- if you keep asking her out she will lose respect for you --- so just be friends and look for a girlfriend elsewhere
2006-11-18 11:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her know that you really care and when the time is right,ask her out
2006-11-19 06:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if shed like to hang out and do something you both enjoy belive me if you act like your not intererested in her that way she may become so
2006-11-18 11:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by dmtll2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her lone.You'll creep her out if you ask again.
2006-11-18 11:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out again
2006-11-18 11:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋