How long should I?

Question

leave a girl to herself to let her figure out what she wants w/ me? How long have you waited? Did things turn out well?

Answer 1

Depending on how you feel. If its strong feelings give her all the time she needs and if your just slightly interested then give her a few weeks and then move on. Nine times out of ten things like this work themselves out. you just have to be patient and go on about life. If she really likes you she will be there if not then don't spend your entire life waiting. Go with your gut on this one you know the answer already your just hoping someone will tell you what to do.

Answer 2

Dont ever wait more than 2 weeks. If 2 weeks go by and the other party has not figured it out yet... they never will. Its the people who say "I dont know what I want" that may never figure it out. My NOW husband broke up with me once and said he wasnt sure if he wanted to be so serious... So because I know how to play the game.... I decided... ok. YOU THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT, AND WHILE YOUR DOING THAT, IM GOING OUT, AND IM GOING TO HAVE FUN! This got his attention, even tho he didnt admit that. So, I went out, as often as possible, and even was dating another guy. I always went to places where i knew his friends would be so they could tell him what I was doing. And this went on for about 1 month. I DID NOT WAIT FOR HIM... But I made it dam clear that I was NOT going to wait any longer. 1 month and 1 day after we broke up and he moved out.... he BEGGED ME to give him another chance. PROMISED ME he would be a better man... and ya know what? HE IS! We've been toghether and HAPPY for over 3 years now. Good luck

Answer 3

5 years

Answer 4

Keep doing what you need to do in your life. You shouldn't put your life on hold because someone can't figure out what they want from. When they do they will come to you. Not you going to them.

Answer 5

not more than 1 week

Answer 6

i have waited a year for a answer she is my wife now.lol