my boyfriend and i are going to have sex for the first time, were both virgins. i know it wont last long but what should i do like just go with it? should i move with his thrusting? is it weird to make noise?
2006-11-18 03:15:55 · 16 answers · asked by maria j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's no reason to say it won't last long, unless you are somewhere where you have to hurry. it would be best to go somwhere where you have some time to do it right. you should make sure that there's lots of foreplay. it will hurt you less the more you are turned on. also ask him to stop after he is all the way in, after he breaks through your hymen, to give you time to adjust to it all. kiss him, touch him, have him touch and caress you, until you are ready to go on. tell him upfront that he has to do this on your terms. it isn't painfull or uncomfortable for him the first time, or so i've heard, so he'll have a tendency to get carried away and go too fast. the first time he needs to slow down. aside from that, do what feels good to you. if it feels good to move, move. if it feels good to make noise, make noise. scream if you want to. there is no right or wrong way, only what you want and what makes you feel good.
now, having said all of that, here is your public service announcement: make sure that you please please please use some kind of protection!!! that's sooooo important. if he won't wear a condom then get birth control. if you are afraid to go to the dr and ask for this, then insist he wear a condom. if he won't, then tell him no sex. you have to be that way about it. this is your body. you are the one that decides what is done with it. ok, lecture over. :) above all have fun and don't stress about it, sex is supposed to be fun.
2006-11-18 03:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by benjis.girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you use protection!
Other than that, try to relax, and go with the flow. Some people have had very uncomfortable first times. It depends on your and your boyfriends "size". (how large he is compared to what you can accommodate). Others have had fantastic experiences the first time. It's not weird to make noise. Just be comfortable. It's your first time, so just enjoy it.
2006-11-18 03:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by jae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. It's going to hurt. Make sure he wears a condom. Foreplay first...Wait until you are wet. Use lube. Best if you are taking the pill too. Tell your parents that you want it to make your periods easier or to clear up your complexion. Best if you are on top, you control the moves first to minimize the pain. Then after you get started, let him move. If he takes it slow, it will last longer. He can stop moving or slow down if he gets "close"
Most important!!! Make sure he takes care of you FIRST. If he doesn't, he's just using you.
2006-11-18 03:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maria, it's a good thing you're having it with your boyfriend. Just relax and play yourself into it. Be very creative in touching each other, succking whatever part of your body - including your ppussy and his ccock. Spend a quality time with oral sex. Then get together in a splendid, satisfying and fulfilled sex afterwards. See, I've been very brief and have tried to choose my words here. Contact me through my profile if you want further discussions. cya soonest.
2006-11-18 03:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what feels right to you. and dont worry about noise. dont believe what movies tell you about sex being this beautiful and wonderful thing because its not really. its messy and awkward almost all of the time. So dont be afraid of doing something wrong because 90 percent of all couple fumble while boning
2006-11-18 03:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you're talking approximately air freeing out of your vagina after intercourse, it is not something to fret approximately. it somewhat is only air that gets trapped up there for the duration of intercourse and releases once you're finished. as long as you at the instant are not blowing in there or putting something you are able to no longer be, i does no longer complication. It occurs often times (pregnant or no longer).
2016-12-10 11:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 18:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by birney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah like he said...just kinda go with the flow of things...lol...and since you are both virgins...it wont matter if you do someting wrong because he probably wont know ...whatever happens...happens.
2006-11-18 03:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah.Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Save your virginity for marriage. This will only complicate your life at this point.
2006-11-18 03:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, save your virginity, i answer this to others , that i surrender my virginity to the 1 who send me in altar and that is my husband now
2006-11-18 03:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋