Well;; I broke up with my boyfriend almost 2 weeks ago;; because he was changing;; becoming a jerk. And anyways;; he keeps calling me and IMing me and stuff and saying he wants me back...and asking for hugs. How do I get him to stop? I dont wanna just flat out say 'STOP HARASSING ME!' but I wanna be straight-forward that Im not interested and dont want a boyfriend right now.
What do I do???
2006-11-18 03:14:44 · 25 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's obviously still being a jerk and you have to put an end to it. You can block his phone calls and IMs, but you aren't. Don't give him the wrong idea. Tell him it's over and to move on. Then you do the same. Stop the contact. He should get the point.
2006-11-18 03:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a nice letter saying that your feelings have changed and the attraction that was felt for him has faded. Life is full of many temporary companions and the time that you have spent with him will be remembered . At the moment, you do non intend to have any kind of relationship since you feel still very young and would like to spend your time with your girlfriends and do some traveling. We all must accept a no for an answer and that is important to learn in order to survive all the adversities of life.
Be careful because today men are not so strong to handle a no from a woman. Remember, not to ask him to be friends because you will just make it harder on him. When alove story ends that means the two of you will walk different roads. Good Luck dear!!!!!
2006-11-18 03:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him: "Stop calling me, stop contacting me, and stop interacting with me if and when we run in to each other. If you do not do this, I will be forced to get some help to make you."
That's straightforward. It isn't his business whether or not you want a boyfriend, only that you don't want him.
If he doesn't stop after you've been straight with him (make a journal entry about the situation where and how you did it. Sending yourself an email right afterward will work very well), call the police, or if you're underage, get your parents involved too.
2006-11-18 03:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Eastenders they could quite easily write a story line like that. Look at some of the other story lines they have had. He deserves to be punished, but I think Tanya will regret it, especially when/if her girls find out.
2016-05-22 00:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost you have to mentally do a preview of events in your relationship that got you to make a decision to break up with him.did he change overnite or has he always bin like that but you were in denial?did you point his flaws out to him and make him understand lines you would not let him cross?if your ans. to this ques. is yes then use them as a guide when you have a chat with him that way he would not be in the dark as to the reason for your decision and would respect your decision and back off or repent ask for forgiveness and turn a new leaf.
2006-11-18 03:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by lavieve2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i seriously had thee exact same problem, hes going to keep doing if u dont tell him off, what i did was i said you've changed, i dont have the same feelings i have for you as you do for me. If we got back together there would be no point, because the relationship wouldnt be the same. Just tell him that if he doesnt get the point then talk to one of his friends and tell them for him to get over you cuz theres no chance
2006-11-18 03:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just that, you don't want a boyfriend right now and don't take his calls. Tell him you need time off and you still like him (if you do) but you are trying to concentrate on you, not someone else!!!
Hopefully he will take it well and leave you alone, but if yo keep answering, he'lll keep calling. good luck.
2006-11-18 03:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you need some space at the moment and would appreciate it if he could stop contacting you for a while,at the end of the day honesty is the best policy
2006-11-18 03:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by frustrated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that last line u said 2 him. if he keeps annoying block him.
just don't be jealous when u see him with a cute girl walking hand in hand.
and he cooooould change if u help maybe.
ur choice. just stick with the choice u make.
;)
2006-11-18 03:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you still love him of course, but you just wanted to give yourself a chance to explore and you just feel so lost and even if you two get back together now, the relationship just won't work coz you aren't ready.... then offer him your friendship
2006-11-18 03:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋