i'm exactly one year from being an adult and haven't been kissed yet...
i'm not desprate...i'm pretty much careless but sometimes this is like an annoying thorn that i can't get out of my @*s.
is this wrong?
2006-11-18 03:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by pokerface 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not wrong. It will happen. Don't worry.
Shhh...To be honest...I was SO shy, I didn't get my first kiss (or "anything") until I hit 20.
So...I understand.
2006-11-18 03:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Kissing yes but unfortunately it wont end there. Once you lick a finger dipped in honey, you will not stop until the pot is empty. In this era of deseases, peer pressure, pregnancy and much more, it is safer to remain what you are. Furthermore you are still green in that field and you may not know how to handle yourself. Wait till you finish school, become an adult, more informed and thereafter make an informed judgement. My advise is, dont miss being kissed - its safer
2006-11-18 03:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong at all. I didn't get my first kiss until I was almost 19. But I am glad I waited until I found the right person, he is the only man I have kissed in my whole life and the only one I ever want to kiss. We are married now, for almost 2 years.
2006-11-18 03:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you!
And at 18, you aren't an adult; you are an older child. People become adults at different times. It all has to do with emotional maturity.
But no, it isn't wrong at all to have never been kissed! If you aren't too desperate about it, and in fact rather apathetic as you have stated, then keep it going! If you meet somebody and it really works with them, feel free to make the move, though. Best wishes!
2006-11-18 04:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Derek Southerby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey. U should be proud to be like this. Now that u r getting much more matured and u can choose the right person. Being kissed for the first time is very very precious. Ull get the right person to do that. All the best
2006-11-18 03:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mikeeee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you are a "feminista". Try being a little more humanist than feminist. That might help. Guys can be intimidated by overly-strong women. (Not that there's anything WRONG with that.) Just relax and be friendly, kind, and make some new friends. Widen your circle of acquaintances. Get some advice from your female friends. It won't be long before some great guy plants one on ya!
2006-11-18 03:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing is wrong and 18 don't mean your an "adult" just by law you can vote and go to prison, don't mean your an "adult" that is all in how you act, i know 30 year old kids so do'nt say you are a year from that, and i was 17 when it finally happend to me, so its not a big deal really you just never found the right one yet is all
2006-11-18 03:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your only 17 at that age your to young for some one older and boys your age are awkward around girls. But don't worry and yes it's normal and when the time is right it'll happen.
2006-11-18 03:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! I didn't start really dating until after high school. Everyone starts at different spots and doing it for the sake of doing it is only going to make you regret it. Your time will come and when it does you'll want it to be great! Hang in there...
2006-11-18 03:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by shelbs 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't worry about that. what you do need to worry about is when you turn 30 and still haven't been kissed. Don't rush it you want your first time to be nice. It will happen
2006-11-18 03:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by in_with_rage 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋