What does "chemistry" actually mean?

Question

I was hanging out with a girl last night, and we were having a pretty good time watching movies and talking. I liked her personality and thought she was attractive, so when we got some alone time I tried to kiss her. But she stopped me. She said she just didn't feel that type of "chemistry" with me. She said she thought I was nice, funny, intelligent and cute, but she just didn't feel the "chemistry", and couldn't really explain why.

This isn't the first time I've heard the "chemistry" explanation from a girl who sees my positive traits but still rejects me. It is a bit frustrating and perplexing. Can you help me figure out what the whole "chemistry" thing is all about?

Answer 1

They say that a girl knows within the first 2 minutes of meeting a guy if she could ever sleep with him. I know I always have known! I think chemistry is the friend/boyfriend factor. With some guys I can look at them and JUST know by their first impression that I could either date them, or NOT ever date them. Its just intuition. Chemistry is just a more used term for intuition.

Answer 2

ok chemistry " Emotional Connection People Feel For Eachother" Suitableness & being Revelant

Answer 3

chemistry- it plays a huge part of loving a person, having the same character with the person you love, sharing the same hobby and loving the same thing. Its like having the same thoughts, ideas... "more like compatibility"
its also the same as saying "your a nice guy, but i dont like you, coz we don't jive (ouch!)....

Answer 4

I, like every other man in the world, have no idea

Answer 5

that 'buzz' you get when you are around someone and if you are lucky,they feel it too,,,when you walk in a room and know they are there,you feel them! and it feels good