iv been seeing this guy for a few months now, weve never been on a date we just meet up for sex on a regular basis. i still live with my parents so when there away hel stay over at mine, n wel watch films and get take away. sometimes i visit him at work n sit with him for a while just chattin, hes introduced me to his friends. he jokes around bout us goin on a date but i just laugh in his face, will he ever want to take things further or will it always be just sex. iv asked my friends and they think he likes me but maybe he thinks the same as me. please help me. i cant ask him because i dont want him to walk away, i dont mind it just bein sex but just want to know. thankyou samx
2006-11-18 03:06:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are laughing about dating when he suggests it, than probably no. He might think you just want sex. Don't give yourself so freely. Sex should come after a realtionship, never before.
2006-11-18 03:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's into you. Joking about going on a date is a 'shy guy' tactic lol. If it was just sex I'm sure he would have been just your 'night time' visitor. Guys that just want sex don't usually hangout and have takeaways, I'm sure they skip all that for the real deal lol. If he is really in to you I can't blame him for feeling a lil confused. If you really like him more than just the sex tell him you can't be sex buddies anymore because you are starting to like him. If he does the runners then at least you won't be used anymore, but if he sticks around then he's a keeper. Well that depends if you want a relationship. If you don't then don't bother asking if it just sex lol.
2006-11-18 03:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want things to be more why do you laugh in his face when he brings up dating? He probably takes it as a blow off, but in reality you are being insecure. Stop playing games, and stop laughing in his face. Start joking about where you would go if you feel nervous, and open it up to a possibility.
2006-11-18 03:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's talked about u 2 going out on a date & u laff at him, then he's probably afraid 2 actually ask. i would say casually put the idea out there in conversation, but don't dwell on it. if u don't mind it being just sex, then don't worry about the date
2006-11-18 03:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy with just the sex then why bother --- if you want something more then you need to find out if he is serious and the only way to do that is talk to him --- you need to tell each other what you want from the relationship
if he only wants sex then why not keep seeing him for sex (as you enjoy it as well) until you find someone serious
2006-11-18 03:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you say it, it's like he' s just using you like a love doll, if you want to get used that way without any emotions then you enjoy that, but I think what you two have is so shallow.
2006-11-18 03:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by macky boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, have more self esteem than that. You need to realize that he's not that into you. He likes to keep him around in case he needs a quick fix. Drop him like a bad habit. Find someone who wants to be there for you. Not just for what you can "give".
2006-11-18 03:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when u laughed about the date...that told him that u are only interested in the sex...
2006-11-18 03:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks your not being serious...if you are laughing in his face when he says he wants to go out and do someting
2006-11-18 03:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah.Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already gave it up so why would he want to take you out?
2006-11-18 03:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Bill C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋