what will you do if your bf keeps on telling you're cheating on him, but your actually not.?

Question

he's the one who cheated before,now he's very paranoid?

Answer 1

It's usually the one that is accusing that is doing the cheating! I'd say buh bye!

Answer 2

He's afraid you want revenge for wht he's done...thats well, practically paranoid.

Either you always communicate with him, reassure and spend time with him, really show your commitment ( not too much though) and proove your, you know, the better partner and always will be (lol)

Or you can dump him, and say you should've done so sooner the cheating, paranoid barf-head! Maybe he just want you off the hook to go cheat another girl????

Answer 3

I had a similar type thing with my ex husband. He had cheated on me and was paranoid that I would return the favor. I never did, but when he began cheating on me again (it always happens) he started accusing me of it. I guess it made him feel less guilty.

Answer 4

Been there done that. The best thing to do( I know it's hard) is get out, insecure men often become abusive. If he thinks you cheating he will cheat again just to show you who's boss. Please have enough love and respect for yourself to get out while you can. Love should never be a mind game. You will find better , I did :)

Answer 5

It is my opinion and I see this a lot. Tell your BF to make a choice, if you think I am cheating move on, if you feel you can't trust me move on. All relationships are built on trust. The BF, I think has a self esteem issue and needs to work on himself. He might think that you will try to get even with him because he got caught. He needs to work real hard to rebuild your trust! I bet he calls and ask's, where have you been, who were you with, what time did you get home. When you trust, you don't have to ask. He should go to dr.phil.com and click on rebuilding relationships and how to build self esteem. Good luck.

Answer 6

lol, I'm sorry to laugh but, the reason he accuses you is because he cheated so he might be thinking that you are going to cheat to get back at him. but, most of the time when someone is accusing the other is because they are the ones doing the cheating. so, you should be asking your self, is he cheating on me again??

Answer 7

Ask him why he is trying to break you to apart, because thats exactly what willl happen eventually. Trust is everything in any relationship, and he's undermining yours with such nonsense. Perhaps he's cheating again and covering it by exhibitng this blame you mentality? I would tell him its over unless he knocks it off.

Answer 8

that's because he figures since he was a loser and cheated on you, you'll do it to get back at him. have a talk with him, tell him you took him back even though he cheated and its his fault he can't trust you. if that doesn't change his attitude, then you may have to get rid of him. you don't need to be with someone who can't trust you because of a mistake that they made

Answer 9

He's paranoid because he has done something against you and may be he believes in "karma", thinking you'll do what he did. Or in other terms "thinkers are doers"

Answer 10

there are many reasons for this type of paranoia; one of them being lack of self-confidence. the only cure for tht is for you to give him that sense of well-being i.e help him build that self confidence he needs.

grab every opportunity to praise him and tell him how great he is. spend time with him and show him that he is your super hero. be creative.. the botoom line is, help him regain his self confidence. show him tht you need him..

do tht and prayerfully, he will be more self assured and have more confidence in your relationship. good luck.