its been 22 years im still grieving the loss of my grandmother will i ever quit crying?

Answer 1

Your Grandmother must have been a pivotal part of your youth. I understand your grief. I lost my only child, my son Stephen, 25 on April 25, 1987. A day that changed my life forever. Love is deep and grief is deeper. No one understands more then we. I strongly suggest that you seek a Grief Counsellor. You can come to an understanding, and that will help you move on to the next stage of grief. You see there are 10 stages, and because you have not received any help and I know, you keep it all inside, you have not been able to step over the loss. Help yourself and take my advise. Believe me, your loved ones will see the difference in you and you will attain "peace of mind". The love you hold for your Grandmother surrounds you. You will Never loose that. Good Luck, and my God's Blessings guide your way. Say your Grandmother's name, and She Lives!

Answer 2

i lost a child from S.I.D.S 16 years ago his birthday is nov.22 and his death date is jan 3. i know what your going through. i feel your pain i still cry and my heart aches especially during these special days. i try to help others out like the angel tree or give donations in his name. find a child that has the same name or brithday on the tree and when you send the gift you could include a little note in remeberence of the person. dont let anyone tell you how long to grieve. its okay. when i cry it means i miss this person. i get through the loss knowing that my baby is safe no one can harm him and that one day i will see him again. sometimes we all need to see a dr. to help us through and thats okay too. whatever you need to do to get through do it, maybe if you wrote a book to help other people with the same thing you are going through and you could carry her memory on. my thoughts and prayers are with you even more at this time of year. Just know that your not alone. God bless you and your family i am truely sorry for your loss. you cant see your grandmother but just know that she is with you always she is watching over you .write in a journal all your thoughts what you remember about her all the good things

Answer 3

Oh my, that is a bit of a time. She must have been a very special person and I am so sorry for your loss.

The grieving process is five fold.

1) Shock.
2) Denial.
3) Anger.
4) Bargaining.
5) Acceptance.

Some of us get "stuck" on one of the phases and help from a professional grief counselor may be in order. And this is quite common by the way. I was stuck on the "anger" of my father's passing for many years. I finally moved past the anger (which was hiding the pain in my case) and I moved into the acceptance. I also had to forgive him for a horrible misdeed he had done to me, which is why the process was so lengthy, again, in my case.

So, please, I urge you, get a bit of professional help and put the matter to rest.

I wish you luck.

Peace.

Answer 4

i am not being cruel, but it sounds like you are crying for yourself, not your grandmother. she must have been a special person and was able to fill a empty part in your life. she probably was the one and only one that accepted you for what u were. now it is time to believe in yourself. perhaps self exploration of yourself may be a good idea. you have to be content with yourself, understand that you have limitations, and all you can do is try to help yourself to enjoy your life more. this is probably what your grandmother would want for you. some professional counseling probably would help. once you understand why your are still crying, then perhaps the crying and feeling that go with it will decrease if not stop i wish u all the luck and hope my advice will help

Answer 5

No. My mom has been dead for 12 years. At times I miss her terribly. I don't cry that often, but I still cry.
I think its very normal.
I think what you have to remember is your Grandmother would not want you to spend so much time being sad. She would want you to embrace life. Go do somehting in the name of your Grandmother, volunteer at a school or food bank.

Answer 6

You are not alone in grieving the loss of someone who has passed on. My Aunt explained death the best way I have ever heard.Death is like carrying a cross sometimes you drop it but then you pick it up and keep on walking. I hope this helps you to see you are not alone :)

Answer 7

It's an unusual case of strong affinity, affiliation and love to your grandmother, who probably was among the best grandma's! Eventually, you'll stop crying, though you will remember her fondly, for quite some time!

Answer 8

John 5:28, 29. Revelation 21:3,4. Psalms 37:10,11. Matth 5:5. Those are your answers, especially Revelation 21:3,4

Answer 9

22 Years OMG !!!! U can t be serious.Well sorry abt that . But even I lost my grandad 10 years ago.I do miss him but I still talk to him b4 i sleep.U just have to move on in life.Im sure if u keep urself busy w other things u wont have time to grieve.

Besides if u do ur work ur grandmom will feel happy.

Answer 10

Usually, the greiving process takes 2 yrs. I would go seek professional help.