ok like there was this guy who i asked out accidently (long story don't ask) and then i explained everything to him and he said he was fine. then he started teasing me and making fun of me every time he saw me. it really started getting on my nerves. but then last night we had a school dance and i saw him there and he was being normal he waved to me and we talked a little. so now i'm confused cuz the last time i saw him was only like a few days ago and he was making fun of me and teasing me and then when i saw him last night he was like "hi" so yeah. can someone plz tell me whats up with him???
don't be mean plz
thanks for answering!!!
2006-11-18 02:12:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off...don't get too worried if people are going to be "mean"...in general, people are a bit mean-hearted even when they like you...that's why the guy is teasing you, he is trying to dominate the conversation with you because he likes you...probably likes you alot. By teasing you, he has something to talk about and it gets you interested in him, even if it is for the wrong reason. This is totally normal! Talk to him and find out if there is really potential in the relationship...and stop being scared.
2006-11-18 02:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by G Wood and the Special Sauce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are so this is a tough one but here goes. Sounds like he was trying to save face, by this I mean he wanted you to think he wasn't upset about what had happened. I think he was however and to make himself feel better he had to make you feel bad. If your young then he could just be trying to tell you he still likes you but he's at the age where boys express this through teasing. I don't understand how you can accidentally ask someone out but if it happens again maybe you should just follow through with the date. After all what will you really lose by making another feel good? Just don't go for date two unless you accidentally find out he's a nice guy and you really had fun with him. :)
2006-11-18 02:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably teasing you because he was trying to get over the fact that you actually did not ask him out wanting to go out with him . Or, he was just teasing you genuinely with no hang ups whatsoever and being friendly in the way he knows to be. Maybe now he realized that the teasing bit can stop and he just stopped, and is being better, more civil and really has no hang ups with you. Talk to him normally, smile, wave, be nice (even if you aren't going to date him or anything) and get on with things.... :-)
2006-11-18 02:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he finally got bored of teasing you, things do get old after awhile. Or he felt that a school dance wasn't the place to tease you.
2006-11-18 02:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience,when a man teases a girl,he likes her.Maybe he likes you,but feels he has to act real cool in front of his friends,that explains his foolishness.Just be the good guy here,and act mature.
Take care
2006-11-18 02:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the teasing just got old. Leave the poor guy alone.
2006-11-18 02:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just two face my friends were in the same situation. He would make fun of her in front of people then talk to her calll her when she got home I think that you should'nt give him the time of day cause he is an ediot.
2006-11-18 02:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the way you rate his sincerity. If you think he's a repentant guy, then you can give him another chance, with the mind that he had realized his mistakes and have come to his senses. If on the other hand you believe he's a pretender, then, let him "go in peace". Please take your time and take a good decision here. Cheers!
2006-11-18 02:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't feel like teasing you any more. Sometimes jokes just get old.
2006-11-18 02:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's teasing you cuz he likes you. If he don wanna be your boyfriend, just stay his friend
2006-11-18 02:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by ????????? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋