I've been unofficially seeing this guy for 2 years but he does'nt want to commit. I go out of my way to please him but I'm tired of competing with his selfishness....we were suppose to go out last night and at the last minute he turned me down....I feel as if he knew he didn't want to go out when he asked me Wednesday night. Why do guys make promises that they cant keep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-18 01:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel sorry for you girl, it's obvious he has you where you wants you and is not at all putting in any effort or treating you with respect. You need to get out of there, pronto.
Best of luck!
2006-11-18 01:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE,
try talking to him and let him know how you feel and that you cant keep going through it, ask him to be real with you and that if he wants to be with you that he has to treat you like his girl and not make up excuses because you cant keep waisting your time..... don't let him have your life on hold if the talking doesn't work than try to move on cause you can find better but give him a chance to show you that he is trying...
GOOD LUCK....
2006-11-18 01:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh get out speak 4 ur self! Some gurlz are like thaat 2 i'm going through it myself with my supposed girlfirend! She doing this 2 me and I am open with her and telling her how i feel about her! Don't give maybe one day he will come around!
2006-11-18 01:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by what da f**k! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are scared to commit even worse than girls. They are afraid that if they get to close they will lose everything that they have. Wheather we realize it or not it takes them forever to even begin to speak to us and when they fear sharing their feelings because they don't know what we think they keep them inside. I suggest talking to him and saying that you are there for them if you really love him and let him know he is important. It has taken my boyfriend a while to come out of his shell but when he did It was well worth it.
2006-11-18 01:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Waiting for Madelyn :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when guy sdon't commit its for a reason. First i;m going to state the obvious. Your man obviously doesn't want to be tied down. Secondly, You can do better. Find someone who's better for you. Someoe who wants to commit. I wouldn't stick around with this guy.
2006-11-18 01:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by James R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be catering to him when HE wants you to. You arent even together as a couple since it it 'unoffical'. He knows you are willing to do anything for him since you have been thus far so he treats you like crap. Stop going out of you way to please him and try making yourself happy for a change.
2006-11-18 01:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becaus they just love 2 use sweet people like u.
2006-11-18 01:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by ms_diva47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can say AND show how I feel.Need an example?
2006-11-18 01:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
FIND BETTER IT ONLY GETS WORSE HON!!!
2006-11-18 01:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋