help me im very upset. plzz help?

Question

my bf thinks i went with some guy on a date. he kept sending text mesgs around 10 days back ...asking me that i went on a date with whom...but i kept silent. then he started sending mesg tht im a prostitute . on 14th nov i replied that i was extremely sick n own with period pain....but he replied tht i am a cheap gurl who has a habit of going with different guys n he abused me. next day 2 mesgs were sent to him by chance addressed to my classmate in which i had written tht i hav to go for tution etc, but he sent an abusive mesg again. he is very jealous types n he has some misconception. i replied tht im scared of him n will take care tht no mesg is sent to him n to keep away from me. I WANA KNOW THT DO SUCH GUYS CONTACT AGAIN ??? WHY DID HE ABUSE ME AFTER BELIEVING HIS FRIENDS??? ONCE IN JUNE ALSO HE HAD SUCH MISUNDERSTANDING N BEHAVED THE SAME WAY. WILL HE AGAIN CONTACT OR LEAVE ME???

Answer 1

Sounds like this guy is a control freak. You need to get as far away from him as fast as possible and stay away. You don't state how old you are, but it sounds like you should get some kind of authority figure involved, parents or school counselor, perhaps even the police. If he's using his cell phone to send threatening messages to you, I believe there is a law against abusing the air waves, you might want to check with your carrier, perhaps you can block him from your phone.

As to why some guys do this, I think perhaps it's an insecurity thing, not necessarily with the person involved with them, but more likely with themselves and so they just lash out without thinking about what it is that they are doing or who they could be hurting in the process.

Either way, you need to break it off for good with this guy, he's no good for you. There has to be trust for something to grow and work out, and on his side, it's just not there.

Answer 2

Honey,you drop him like a hot brick.! He appears to have insecurity and anger management issues,sounds like a wanker and a LOSER.I know its hard,but forget him . Put a block on your phone so he can't send message's and wipe his number of your speed dial.One thing to remember verbal abuse is only one tiny bit away from physical abuse and do you really want to get into that trip??
Don't talk to your friends about him or his ! If he doesn't stop tell your school counsellor or someone you can trust to protect you.

Answer 3

let me tell u that he either has no self confidence or something happened before that made him say so...
I don't mean that he doesn't have self confidence with everyone but if he really loves u he will always feel jealous from everyone & will think that others r better than him and all that ****!!!!
but if something happened before that mad him say so then it's now your fault and u will have to covince him that u changed , u'll never do this again & that u love him.
GOOD LUCK & DON'T BE SCARED TREAT HIM LIKE A BABY(guys like that but they don't know it) ; )

Answer 4

.......... Don't wait for him to leave you

YOU leave him first.. seriously...
Somehow i feel that he's that.. kind of guy that will take revenge on you no matter what. I m sure he will still keep sending you msg that "abuse" you.

IF and After you leave him, better not go out alone for some time... get people to walk with you...
just... be careful....

Answer 5

He will rape you. Don't ever talk to him. Run away from your town and change your identity. I suggest a sex change operation. Do not ever come in front of him. The abusive types are rapists. He will rape you.

He will rape you.

Answer 6

maybe it was a bad joke

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