I'm with him for more than 8 months alr. he always put his arms ard me, pull me close to him. he also likes to touch my ears. he loves to lean his face against mine. but why haven he start kissing me?
2006-11-17 21:33:21 · 10 answers · asked by michelledarlingal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you have bad breathe?
2006-11-17 21:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by stupidiot21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys are our kind of rough on her. I'm not sure what Feebs is talking about I never heard that kissing seals a relationship. Keep in mind millions of divorced people did a lot of kissing. Too many bad breath jokes.
Okay you two have been really close to kissing but just not getting there. It's easy to assume that both of you are a little shy because you did not say you tried to kiss him and he backed away. It seems both of you just can't communicate about what to do next.
Here are two approaches.
Ask him to sit somewhere with you quietly. Definitely away from other people and distractions. Tell him that you've been enjoying his companionship for the last eight months. You love the way you both hold hands and you especially like when he holds you close. Say that you are a bit shy... and you have never done this but you would like him to show you how to kiss. (If he says he doesn't know). Ask can we practice together right now?
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Tell him you're not sure you want to go out with him anymore. This of course will startle him and he'll say WHY? Because I don't think you like me. Doesn't matter what his answer is then say... because you won't kiss me. (There are girls out there with tears in their eyes right now).
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2006-11-18 06:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been dating this guy for much too long, honestly it isn't a good thing that he isn't kissing you, sorry. you know, a kiss connects 2 people it's very intimate-maybe he's afraid of commitment because kissing seals the relationship!! it's been 8 months he should be sure by now if he wants to be with u.ask him!!good luck
2006-11-18 05:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's never kissed before, doesn't know how. If you're old enough to be doing that, then kiss him first.
2006-11-18 05:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems very strange to me, my suggestion would be to grab him and kiss him first. If he pulls away then you must talk. A relashionship is about affection and intimacy, if you dont have that then you dont really have a relashionship, you have a friendship.
2006-11-18 05:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months is too long for a guy not to kiss his girl..Sure you've got lips?
2006-11-18 05:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know...maybe there's something he didnt like..put on some cologne in the morning and perfume if its in the evening...and clean ur hair.ears and brush your teeth...
or maybe he doesnt know how to kiss..show him!
2006-11-18 05:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't have experience yet..that's why he doesn't dare?? I don't know. Relationships are built on mutual trust, why don't you be frank with him? Ask him..
2006-11-18 05:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by smallorganic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and lure him into kissing you.
2006-11-18 05:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Achilles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your breath stinks...use listerine
2006-11-18 05:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋