like i said yes2day i have got to tell her my feelings but am scared that i will lose her friendship. but i love her and she is worth that risk. what should i tell her and how??. my only concern is that if she says she doesnt love me but that she used to. that would kill me. to know i could have had her and now cant would be too hard to take. because i would feel like i could have told her sooner or if i had done things differently it may have been different. i did think that me going out with her sister was a mistake but it helped me realise my feelings towards her and i now know that i have loved her all along but i just didnt want to admit it. would it be my fault if she fell out of love with me before,plz help me?? and am i doing the right thing by telling her??
2006-11-17 21:32:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
partly, it would be your fault why she fell out of love to you....and second, you are doing the right thing and i am very proud of you...coz it would take a lot of courage to do what you are about to do.. please continue your plan and tell her the truth...LET THE TRUTH SET YOU FREE!!!
2006-11-17 21:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These feelings will only drive you mad if you do nothing! Why not take the Bull by the horns and ask The only two outcomes that can happen is she will sick the family dog on you. or rip you face off! So what are you a man or a mouse. Talk to her if she listens then you are further ahead than you are now. If she says no that is her decision and you have to respect it.OK She may be waiting for a responce from you Then again she may want to nail your hide to the cabin wall. You don't know! Talk to her! GO What are you still sitting there for! GO GO GET One foot in front of the other. Please let me know how it work out. Good luck to you both my heart is with you both. The world hasn't stopped spinning yet!
2006-11-18 05:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my comfused friend, i dont realy think you lovr her . yes of course you have feelings for her but don't call it love . when you love some one it's unique. you cant imagine your self with someone else . you cant kiss or come close with anyone else. i dont now if thats just the way i think of things. but if there's at least one thats knows that feeling doesnt that mean that others can to? anyway. if you really want to tell her and maybe love her further down cause your on a good way, the best way to tell her isnt a recipe. just hold her. say what you feel. mean what you feel. be sincear. dont be afraid of anything. she will feel the warmth in your heart. and after feeling it if she Say's no then just smile. you want the best for her dont you. only she knows whats the best for her. just get up now and go. waiting doesnt help. you dont gain anything. i hope the best of luck... :)
2006-11-18 05:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, theres a good chance she isn't interested in you...also a good chance she might be...you won't know unless you tell her your feelings...just be straight and to the point..have some confidence in yourself and let her know exactly how you feel, what you expect to transpire, and let her know that your feelings are real, and that she doesnt have anything to doubt.
As long as you are honest with her, and yourself. Things wont go too bad. if you say what others tell you to say though..then you are expressing other peoples words, and while they may touch her, how fare is it to not bare your heart and soul to her, when you are asking her to give you hers?
2006-11-18 05:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Shaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her! there's nothing worse than being in your 30s and still hung up on that girl u liked in high school/college.. also life's too short, just tell her and move on, with her or without!
Good Luck!
2006-11-18 05:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by blithe_vow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do any step you should psychlogically equipped against any shock that may happen.
2006-11-18 05:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her
2006-11-18 05:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋