This girl i really like has started giving me alot of silent treatment, and im scared im going to lose her now....its been 3 weeks of constant going to movies, heaps of lunches, and chatting everyday, and the past few days, nothing......is she annoyed i havent made the move??....she broke up with her b/f 3 weeks ago, and weve been close since, but we were really close even before that time too. She made me cheer her up the day they broke up, and i did taking her to movies, and conforting her. She likes to touch me heaps, and also started hitting me aswel lol as odd as it sounds. I dont know ifshes annoyed with me, but she seems to be keeping her distance, and not txtn me as much now....what should i do, and how can i tell her how i feel in a subtle way and not givingit away....i think its too early at this stage since shes been through a breakup, but she needs to know im interested i think. I do like to annoy her alot, but recently not been doing so as she may not like it.
2006-11-17 21:16:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She been acting very wierd lately, and im getting hurt by it, bot talking as much too me, and becoming very moody it seems.
2006-11-17 21:19:10 · update #1
have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.
2006-11-17 21:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true way to be able to tell what she is thinking... is to ask her. She's probably really confused right now with all of the emotions she is feeling with the breakup so don't take it too personal. You should tell her how you feel but also tell her you are perfectly fine with remaining friends if she doesn't feel the same way or if it's too soon. Who knows she may feel the same way about you ....and if she doesn't well... then you can remain friends but at least you put everything out in the open. You can't always play it safe...
2006-11-18 05:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by outoftouch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people who break up are on the rebound and you were there. She probably didn't know that you have feelings for her. She may have an inkling that you do. I fully believe that you should not hint at anything. See how she has told you how she has felt? You should tell her you have had feelings for her too. Tell her you want to remain her friend if she doesn't want to be anything more. Sometimes when you become more than friends, it ruins your friendship. Remember, Honestly and communication are always important in any relationship and are fully respected more than anything.
2006-11-18 05:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can tell her that you like her very much and you know she has been hurt recently so u have been holding back a lot of ur feeling for her. love makes us fools, believe me, but its worth the chance.. go for it..good luck..
2006-11-18 05:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur cool dude.
just be urself. once your conscious abt ThiNGS u end up being screwd.
dont push. dont slow down, but calm down !
2006-11-18 05:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by MARIA JANICE 31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋