I've met this guy online and he isn't from here. He's from another country. I've fallen for him and vise versa. In order for him to stay in the country, he needs to marry someone. We've already discussed that I can't be that person for him so he is looking for someone from his city. (we're in different cities too) My question is how do I show my support to him in his search for someone else when I feel jealous? What should I do?
2006-11-17 20:08:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason I can't marry him (yet anyways) is my parents don't approve of his ethnicity. The thing is, he isn't religious like most people of his ethnic origin and we have the same outlook on beliefs and lots of other things
2006-11-17 20:13:43 · update #1
I think you guys are have missed the part where I said we have talked and he knows that I'm not going to marry him right now. (he has to leave in March) IF things work out and he stays here and his marriage doesn't work out, IF we want to get married at that point, THEN I could see us getting married. He knows I'm not going to marry him so he can stay.
2006-11-17 20:37:26 · update #2
hey you havent yet met the guy yet so you can't love him blindly what you see online migth not be true don't jump to conclusions wait and see if he really loves you tell him to meet your parents if he is such a good guy your parents will marry you with him for sure.
2006-11-17 20:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by vishakh v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you. Foreigners need an American to marry them so they can stay here because they are too lazy to do it the right way. Let him find some other sucker to take advantage of. Just remember a lot of guys are smooth talkers and can change radically once they have you in a relationship. Get smart and tell him to take a hike.
2006-11-18 04:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with you girl... Dont the guys in this country cause you enough pain do you have to go looking for in another country.. Its a little pathetic, come on.... How can you be jealous of words on a screen... How old are you? If you hold out for the real thing someday that really great guy who can be YOUR knight in shining armor will arrive...
2006-11-18 04:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by She Said 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont marry in order to give someone a green card.
2006-11-18 04:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cyndi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love him why not marry him..??
2006-11-18 04:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by LaDy in Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋