i didnt ask him to use a condom cause i thought,and he said as well,that he had been tested. i found out from a text message another girl sent him saying the same has happened to her during a one night stand.
would you leave him cause he is a liar or would you stay with him cause you both have the same "thing" :((((((((((((((((((((
2006-11-17 20:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you haven't been with him long enough to know about his h.i.v....then it sounds like its not a tough enough decision to me. I would not stay with anyone who lied to me about h.i.v. I would contact my local authorities and press charges for attempted manslaughter...or whatever charge that would stick. You also have to own some of the responsibility your self...you also made a choice to have sex with someone without a condom..so you are partially at fault here.
I would not stay with him. A lot of people live long and healthy lives with h.i.v. You need to be under the watchful eye of a physician. You need to behave in a way that is conducive to you staying as healthy for as long as you can. I can't imagine what you might be going through. I would be devastated.
I do hope that if you have any relationships in the future that you show courage and integrity....by allowing anyone that you may be intimate with the courtesy of telling them that you are infected. I know you never intended for this to happen..but when it comes right down to it ...you just can't trust every one. No matter what!!!!
i wish you health and longevity...may you teach from your experience and fill the minds of many.
2006-11-17 20:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you HIV. Do you not see the real problem? It's not HIM. It's YOU. If you just spent what is probably an hour at least, typing about how much of a non-human he is, and are demagnifying the real problem at hand, then you are very lost. He GAVE you HIV. You will die from a disease HE gave you. You will die, and a horrible way, where your body will die slowly, in pain and misery, and all you can think about is how HE feels? I'm sorry you are going through this. This is awful. You NEED to throw this piece of trash in the garbage. And take your daughter, go live with people who love you, and deal with what is the most important. And the most important thing is YOU. Please see this, and believe that you are important.
2016-05-22 00:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is would you leave your boyfriend because he gave you HIV and lied to you or stay with him because you have the same thing? First of all he lied to you about a disease that might kill you. He might also be lying now that he does not have herpes or hepatitis C. I mean seriously don't walk ...run.
You haven't really said you been tested and have this. Because he has tested positive for HIV he may not have transmitted to you yet. However continued unprotected sex will certainly almost guarantee you an infection. Continually having sex with him just because he might have the same disease makes no sense at all. HIV is a complicated virus and it has been shown that repeated exposure is much more dangerous so it only increasing your odds of getting full-blown AIDS.
Also in almost all states if you're boyfriend need he was HIV-positive and had unprotected sex with you without telling you that is a crime
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2006-11-17 20:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMy parents both died of AIDS I'm not sure who gave it to who but they stayed together! My advice is What is done is done now you must go through your healing process if you can find it in your heart to forgive your BF then I say stay with him, you both may benefit from the support of eachother! Most importantly you must put yourself first get emotionally stable before making any decisions. Your health is whats important right now focus on being as stress free as you can!! My heart goes out to you!!!
2006-11-17 20:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would beat my girlfriend to within an inch of her life. Especially if she had just been spreading it around to a ton of different people.
2006-11-17 20:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sure you have it then? Im very sorry to hear that but if you feel he gave it to you and you know hes lied about then i think you answered your own question about weither you should leave him. Thatsa big yes
2006-11-17 20:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report to the health authority to prevent spreading. In my country, it is a crime not to report..
2006-11-17 20:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this story...
I guess the big question is...DO YOU LOVE HIM enough to continue your life with him?
Whatever, YOUR choice is... I wish you the best :)
God Bless...
2006-11-17 20:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with your stupidity. you went for a player and you got played!!!
2006-11-17 20:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you are hiv pos? I don't know what I'd do but I'd probably want to kill his a88.
2006-11-17 20:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋