2006-11-17 20:02:17 · 22 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion and experience, I believe you should NOT feel guilty for a thing in this life. We are only H U M A N.
But you DO need to rresolve your conflict with your OWN self, learnt to understand WHY you can not totally COMMIT to a relationship.
I suggest you to step BACK and take a good look at yourself because if you can NOT commit to her now,
what would you DO if you were Married???
Would you CROSS the boundaries and just how FAR are you willing to??? I have many Married male friends myself,as I get along better with MALES than FEMALES.
But you have to set Boundaries.What would you DO, if your g/f was doing the same? Would you want to KNOW
or would you want her to Keep it From you???
Take care hun...and live life to its fullest. Most people are comfortable being with ONE person,but if you're NOT, then you NEED to LET HER KNOW!!! KATHY
2006-11-17 20:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by ICY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends. if you are talking to the other female about regular stuff, then you shouldn't really feel guilty. but if you ask her out, then you really should feel guilty. if you want the guilt to end, i suggest you should spend more time with your girlfriend. only then you can feel your appreciation for her rise.
2006-11-17 20:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Piper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dude.Its just that u r making friends with her.Just that u shud trust ur G.F n she shud have faith on u.U must keep in mind to talk to her just as a friend and moreover u knw that ur not gonna meet her .U must not feel guilty.
2006-11-17 20:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What need to ask yourself is whether you would continue to chat with here if your girlfriend was sitting next to you? If not, you are obviously doing something that would contaminate your relationship with her. The question is - how much do you care for her - enough to be true to her alone? Good luck.
2006-11-17 20:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should.. The reason u are asking this questions is cause u know it is wrong.. What if u gf was chatting away to glory with other men?? dude even if it is online it is wrong .. and u know it
2006-11-17 20:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey calm down im sure da gal wud undrstand....y do hv to feel guily anyway,..its nt like u guys..i.e the gal frm da other country..r serious...and well want to start a realtionship..then ya u should feel guilty..i mean im sure ur nt that kinda of a person???? Dnt cheat on her..u wnt be rewarded 4 that!!! hehehe
dnt wry kkkk...tell ur gal friend and tell her that you feel guilty..4 doing such a thing..im sure she'll love u even more....kk..so gud luck..
Hp it helps..!!!Tell Her..ur gal she'll understand...
2006-11-17 20:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by Chrmd_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you, just kidding. Obviously if you are asking you do feel guilty, why don't you ask your girlfriend if she thinks it is ok, and would you be ok if she was doing the same to you?
think about this.
2006-11-17 20:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, your g/f isnt going to like it, you wouldnt be asking if you didnt feel guilty, plus, how would you feel if your g/f was chatting it up with some guy online?
2006-11-17 20:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweets 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's not different than if you were sitting in a bar or on the beach trying to meet and talk to girls.
2006-11-17 20:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you already feel guilty, and rightly so. You should unless you've discussed your talking with this other girl and is okay with it.
2006-11-17 20:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋