I like who am.. Most of the time people judge me without getting to know me. Most women don't like me.. perhaps they are intimidated by me.. I get alot of attention from men.. Which some off the women i work with can't stand.. What makes them even to dislike me more is that i don't seek attention .. I got to work to work basically.. I Think they wanna get rid of me.. I like my job and i don't wish to make any eniemes.. Is it me or everyone around me is crazy .. i don't even care about my looks..
2006-11-17 19:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are confident women, that does not try to hard to get attention. Thats a good thing because men like that. If there jealous let them be, try not to think about the negative attitude around you. Think of the possitive, do your job. If you have to work around them and talk to them about the job situations then go ahead. But other stuff that is not about work, ignore it. Sometimes you will have to work with people that don't like you and if you give up they win. That is what they probably want.
When something like that happens to me, I just treat them like any other person because Im in a job you are supposed to act professional. If they don't act like that, the boss is going to notice that.
2006-11-17 20:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here, I don't worry if my hairs prefect or what people think, And women get jealous because they believe their appearance has been important. to get attention or ahead.
Im a nice person and at times it would take a long time befor I was accepted
2006-11-18 04:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!! i dont get it either, its not at work all the chicks i work with are really cool. Its at school or when im just downtown. I'm the shy chick and i like it but most girls think i'm one of those stuck up snoby chicks that is competely obssesed with how i look. i dont care though, i'm a jeans and t-shirt girl i dont go outta of my way to get attention of guys but i get it anyway. i dont understand it but everyone tells me its because i'm pretty (but i think i'm average looking, but i'm happy with myself) maybe its because you have confidence in yourself and there all insecure and they wanna have the confidence you do.
2006-11-18 03:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
U r being d object of envy for getting mail attention. I dont think ur colleagues r ur true frends...ditch dem n go wid ur mail colleagues!
2006-11-18 03:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by larynx_18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they feel threaten by your charm. helllllllllllllllllloooooooooo!
2006-11-18 03:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋