why is it that when i reject a girl they immediately say "oh i dont like him" or "he is the worst" or "he is the last person i'd ever date" but 5 seconds ago they were totally into me?
2006-11-17 19:46:39 · 8 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you've bruised their ego and they want to save face.
2006-11-17 19:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just dont take rejection too well. You wounded their pride a little, its not much of a big deal. They will get over it pretty quickly dont worry, unless they liked you a little more than the norm. Anyway, maybe you should try letting them down a little easier? being too bold and harsh can make you come off as a big ******. trust me, just be a little bit sweeter and they shouldnt take it too hard.
2006-11-17 19:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what your really trying to say is that your alone and reject woman so they don't get too close... I see- why don't you not be a jerk and maybe you'll actually have someone, Why be mean because your afraid of being hurt... Not all woman want to do this..
2006-11-17 20:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you rejected them harshly you and thats wrong. u should always try to reject girls as POLITELY as a gentlemen can.. cause their emotions are amplified by like 23131% compared to men.
2006-11-17 19:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there completely shamed out that you rejected them and wanna make it seem as if they didnt really care.
2006-11-17 19:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you reject someone, tell her "I think you're Neat" or "I think you're swell". It'll leave her clueless, then you don't have to deal with a come-back.
2006-11-17 19:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sindee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually happened to guys too...not just girls...
2006-11-17 19:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want to show you that they dont care and that they are sooo much better than you...Also because they want you to ask them to date.
2006-11-17 19:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋