Whenever I am at the pool or at the beach and I am getting out the water, the swimtrunks tend to hug my package. I am not trying to brag, but seriously, I am very well endowed and I always notice women staring. Do you stare in this situation? Do you think it's inappropiate? I used to try to hide, It's easier to just keep on walking ignoring the stares. What's is a woman's perspective on this?
2006-11-17 19:12:58 · 13 answers · asked by Ed P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I think you are have problem
2006-11-17 19:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Freesia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your discomfort. Honestly, its inappropriate to stare, but its hard not to. I hope that women at least look away if they realize you've caught them staring. That's about all they can do. Think about if you what would happen if you saw a women with unusually large breasts in a wet tshirt. I'm not talking about one of those contests, just say its a black tshirt (not transparent) and shes not wet because shes showing off. Once you notice, you usually catch yourself staring whether you mean to or not.
Just ignore them and try not to let it make you self conscious. Most women would be embarrassed to be caught staring. And be happy that its winter now and you don't have to deal with it right now. Personally, I live for big baggy sweater weather for a similar reason.
2006-11-18 03:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by FabMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in general, it is rude to stare, much more at the breasts. But most probably those women staring are not imagining you the way men do. It's possibly just envy perhaps? Or maybe it's just that striking that they tend to stare. Do not get offended. the best thing to do is wear a shawl to cover it up, or a more conservative and less-revealing swim top.
2006-11-18 03:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad for you. Try to ignore the stares. Keep your chin up and just keep on walking. Be proud of who you are. People are rude to stare at you in the first place.
2006-11-18 03:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stare too. Be proud!
By the way, the 'package' does not necessarily reflect a proportional change in its size when inflated.
2006-11-18 09:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't stare personally, but women feel the same way when men are staring down their bikini tops or blouses.
2006-11-18 03:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy that you are fueling our fantasies and do continue to be modest, thank you. I might stare, sorry. Just keep being modest and try to take the stares as uninhibited complements.
2006-11-18 03:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by RubyRemfear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, quite honestly, I notice these things but don't stare. Staring is rude, noticing isn't. After all, you're wearing (and continue to wear) revealing garments knowing they attract notice. That tells me you want to be "seen"...same goes for women who wear garments that accentuate their various attributes. If you don't want to be noticed...male or female...don't wear things that draw attention!
2006-11-18 11:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by Rembrandt11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would stare and give props, isn't similar to a man staring at a female's chest?
be happy that you're not "the other guy"
2006-11-18 06:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get different trunks, a fabric with a bit more "body" to it will be less clingy when wet.
2006-11-18 09:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by UppityBroad68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on??? Does it bother you? I don´t think it does. Men always stare at our boobs or butt- let them dream.
2006-11-18 07:49:17 · answer #11 · answered by nv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋