I want to have a baby so badly and i had my 1st child a year ago and hes1 year old and now i really want another baby so badly but my husband doesnt because we dont have much money andhe wantsto wait 5 years how do i tell him i want one now but i can wait for 2 years
2006-11-17 18:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by jsbabb1 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
A baby while your husband wants to wait? please don't corner him by pretending you're on birth control!!! talk to your husband, use rational arguments (not emotional ones) since he is using a rational approach. but most of all, ask yourself WHY you want a baby so bad? for you or for the child??
2006-11-17 18:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by toubab 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont do it until you both are ready to do it otherwise it will just cause a lot of problems between you two try to compromise and ask him if things get better financially could you guys try sooner.as a mother of two a 3 year old and a 4 month old let me suggest waiting a while until your first child is alot more independent 5 years old is a good age to wait you know how much time you put in with a newborn plus your oldest will be out of the baby stage and there wont be so much jealousy
2006-11-18 02:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by tina h 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. But the thing is, its best that both of you want it. At least you have child. Be happy and concentrate on this one until he goes to school. That's already another 3 years. Have some patience and understand your husband. It will happen before 5 years. Good luck
2006-11-18 02:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me honey if your husband doesn't want one don't do it. this could ruin your marriage. I've seen it happen. one of my friends did this her husband was not ready but she got her self pregnant anyways... guess what he ran off and cheated on her when she was 7 months pregnant and again when the baby was 3 months old... they are having a fabulously disastrous marriage now as you can imagine. both people have to be on board for a baby. it would be hugely self of you to force him on this now. just because its right for you does not mean its the right time. where is the hurry? if you two do not have the finances right now then your husband is right you should wait... don't you want to give your kids the best you can?... if you do then wait till your both ready as children should be wanted by both parents.
2006-11-18 02:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should take your time on having a second child. Especially if you can not afford it right now. Have it when you are financially stable.
2006-11-18 02:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by tearzofaprincess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your husband. If you can't afford to have another child right now you have no business doing so.
2006-11-18 02:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and try to make money too so mabey he wont have that excuse that you dont have enough money for another 1
2006-11-18 14:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The person who says no has the power" said by Dr. Laura .It does not matter if you like her or not the answer is true.
2006-11-18 03:12:15 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysthebestanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, make him think your on birth control.
2006-11-18 02:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Woody 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋