The first day of college I met my first real girlfriend, then I broke up with her because I didn't like her. Then she slept with another guy, and my feelings returned for her again. We started to date again, then I broke up with her the second time because I didn't have strong feelings with her but we knew everything about each other and we loved hanging out with each other, but I didn't "love" her. She did the same exact thing with another guy again so we started to date again, then I broke up with her because I didn't have the same feelings for her. Now she's talking to this other guy and I'm afraid the same thing will happen again and my feelings keep crawling back for her. I can't get out of this cycle or trap! Sometime's I cry because I'm so hurt by confusion and lonliness because she was really my best friend, now I have no one. Is there something wrong with me? Why can't I move on? Should I go back to her or what, how can I get out of this. Please help.
2006-11-17 17:51:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep her as a bestfriend but don't date her. If you can't seperate the two then you need to make up your mind. Otherwise this is going to rip you apart.
2006-11-17 17:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a seize, once you enter right into a relationship in a hurry and has basically inclination in the direction of sexual exhilaration. In assuring deep friendship, he might falsely assure that he might marry you and compliment you, yet in no way from the backside of his coronary heart. he's thinking something else in the time of relationship. some could additionally falsely assure that he loves you very plenty, exploits intercourse and vanish after he has happy himself. those are traps basically realised after one leads to hurting and the sensation of harm grows further and extra with time till frustration overtakes relationships..
2016-10-04 02:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she still moves in your circle of friends and you still see her. it is hard. but you know your feelings are not strong enough for her. you should try to be busy studying or hang out with pals doing guy stuff like play basketball. you could ask pals to give you moral support by helping you not to date her again.good luck
2006-11-17 18:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sounds to me like you dont want her but you dont want anyone else to have her either. You should really look into getting some professonal help. This is not a healthy "LOVE".
2006-11-17 17:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem. Why would you want her only when shes sleeping around? Thats just weird.
2006-11-17 17:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One cannot have his cake and eat it too.
2006-11-17 18:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up ur mind and stick to it...
2006-11-17 17:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋