I want out, but i dont know how. What should i do? How i care for him and i know he cares for me but i just dont think its going to work out between us. How did u let go of ur 1st love. What did it take for you? I dont want to need him anymore. Help
2006-11-17 17:51:20 · 10 answers · asked by Nino 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to talk to him and make him see you want to be friends but the love relationship is over. Best if you can put some physical space between yourself and this guy.
2006-11-17 17:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you may be looking for a relationship that doesn't exist. No relationship is perfect and usually it's always on again off again as far as getting along. I've been married for 8 years. It's not always great, but I love her. People are looking for this magic, perfect, always roses, completely rewarding relationship. Truth is, they don't exist. Think of how comfortable you guys are when you have sex. That spark that exists when you touch down with a new guy is just the NEWness. When you get comfortable and know someone well, that's love.
2006-11-17 17:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me to. I had a relationship with my bf for 3 years and i got so tired of it because we constantly fight.We broke up just this year. I began to let him go when he cheated on me. I then realize that we really weren't meant for each other. It wasn't easy though for he was my first love. For you, think of it first why do you have to let him go. Have some quality time for yourself to think about it. Goodluck!
2006-11-17 17:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Erica Joyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about how you feel. it's going to be hard...but if you really want out, then that is a way to do it.
i actually got over my first love because he lied to me about having a child. i felt that i couldn't trust him at all...so that made things really easy. but other ex's...it was harder. just hang out with friends and try to fill your time with things that will take your mind from the ex in question. you'll never fully forget...but the memories will be dulled.
2006-11-17 17:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs is a long time. it is not easy to just turn off the loving feeling. see if you are really really sure. no relationship is perfect. you might not find someone else to love such as you loved him. so be sure.in my case he was the one who broke off our 5 yr relationship coz he fell in love with another woman.
2006-11-17 18:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your need for him is more than your love for him then i think you should tell him how you feel. you will never forget your first love no matter what. but maybe give it a try for a little longer let him know what needs to change
2006-11-17 17:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by trblmmmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is time to let things go, u cant force something that doesn't exist anymore.
2006-11-17 17:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by becky5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truths biggest LIES, that your a LESBIAIN and you like pussy, and you have a girlfriends. I GET A DILDO AND SAY SEE I FOUND MY BEST FRIEND, SHOW HIM SAY I NAMED AFTER YOU DONKEY.
2006-11-17 18:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want out. dont lead him on. its best to be truthful about how you feel with him.
2006-11-17 17:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by brownie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whats bst for you... good luck, and think it out carefully before u make that decision
2006-11-17 17:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋