I'm in love for the first time, at 22 and paranoid of Vegas and the guys. I've told my boyfriend that I want him to go and have fun with the guys, and that I trust him, but still am kinda scared. Am I just too worried for no reason. I believe that I trust him, but why do I still feel scared?
2006-11-17 17:38:37 · 11 answers · asked by vida l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, not at all. After all what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.
2006-11-17 17:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by seatony 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you start worrying about your guy going off and having fun with his friends, you are not going to have this guy for very long. Just because he is going to Vegas does not mean he is going to cheat on you. He can cheat at home just as well as he could in Vegas, you know? Give him the benefit of the doubt until you have a very good reason to believe otherwise.
2006-11-17 18:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by rosey 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I once had a situation that I felt exactly this way about. I was assured that I had nothing to worry about and he could not understand why I would not trust him. As one woman to another, the Lord gave us "gut feelings" and instincts for a reason. He later told me that I had every reason to feel hesitant and "paranoid" because I was right on the nose.
I am all for my husband having friends and doing things with them, just as I have my own friends, but there is also reality. Why would he want to place himself in a bad situation when he could just as easily avoid it? Just be honest with him. Tell him that you love him (if that is the truth) and that you just dont feel comfortable with his going there. Don't be whiny or cry (that is just a form of manipulation). Be yourself and discuss it. See how you feel after that.
2006-11-17 17:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by my2cents 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're nervous either because you don't know him well enough, or you know him too well.
Be aware that young men in Las Vegas will likely bring home any number of nice "presents" for their girlfriends. Bear in mind that a person may not test positive for HIV for up to 6 months...plenty of time to pass the gift on.
2006-11-17 17:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're scared because you don't want to be hurt. And you know that if you are choosing to love him, you can't avoid being out of control. When you're in love, the two people exchange hearts. You need to think about how he acts when he's in your home town. Does he do things to make you think he is untrustworthy? And does he seem like someone that is easily lead astray? Because if he is, it doesn't matter if he's a good guy and faithful all this time. His boys might get around him and be like go - go - go - go - go when the stripper is on top of him in the hotel room, know what I'm sayin ?
2006-11-17 18:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
U r probably nervous because u have some deep feelins for yo boyfriend. If his feelins r the same as yours u dont have any worries. U r 22 so no matter what u have some long great years ahead of u.
2006-11-17 17:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in case you do no longer think of you are able to believe him, you are able to no longer be relationship him. yet anyhow, his tale basically is comparable to mine, the time I went to vegas. Leaving a club, some inebriated female hit on me, yet I only blew her off through fact: a million. My brothers and that i've got been heading to the on line casino to gamble. 2. i do no longer desire to awaken in a city I slightly be attentive to without my wallet.
2016-12-10 11:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it,the nightlife is fun and everyone is out to have a good time.its not like everyone is out looking for a hook up.if your that worried grab a girlfriend and go too and do your own thing and youll see its alot of fun.beware,the sun rises real quick when your out haveing fun clubbin and gambleing .
2006-11-17 17:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him than let him go and have fun. If he cheats (i am sure he will not..so dont worry) than you find out he is a jerk before its too late. Why not go out on a little trip with your friends?
2006-11-17 17:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well honestly i would be nervous about that too. you have reason to be nervous...but don't let it eat at you. while he's gone, find something to do that will take your mind away from where he is and what he may or may not be doing.
2006-11-17 17:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋