i met him as my boss, i was longing for him, he is already married, but he was not happy with that marriage life, i said i'll make him happy, my marrying him, he also accepted got divorce, came out of family for me, he is searching for a job now, he was also longing for me few days b4, but now he is avoiding me, what shld i do to get along with him. i lost my soul to him i cant live without him. plz help me to get along with him.
2006-11-17 17:33:25 · 3 answers · asked by jothi v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
maybe you should have let things be, until the marraige ended by itself.....there is no point trying to bust up a relationship, it'll only make the man run further away from you....(regardless of whether he feels the same about you in return on not) .....now that he has what he wanted, the temptation of "forbidden fruit" is no longer there.....good luck with it, its going to be a tough road ahead for you....
2006-11-17 17:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think perhaps separation is helpful here.
You are "the other woman" after all. He may have forgotten why he chose you over his other life. Perhaps he is fighting within himself over what to do now...
The best thing for the both of you is to be apart. If he loves and truly wants to be with you, he'll come back to you. If he loves and truly wants to be with her, he'll go back to her. Just don't give in at first. Allow him some time to be with himself...a month at least. That time will let him deal with himself and his future.
Good Luck, I don't think anything close can be built between you two until he deals with his past.
2006-11-17 17:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men rarely marry the women who break up their marriages. They don't trust them, and why should they? He has probably gone hunting for someone mor trustworthy than a woman who would scheme to break up a family. These are the consequences YOU chose.
2006-11-17 17:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋