Hi! Okay, I'm a 17 year old girl and I am usually friendly and I smile a lot. It is just my personality, people say when I am mad they can't tell because I'm still smiling. Well I try to be friendly to everyone and yet I am still a little shy around those I don't know. Well I get along with most people and I seem to attract stalker-ish types of men as well as older men. I am a Christian so I have decided to wait until marriage. But I still love to have a good time. My guy friends/co-workers told me I was "beautiful" or told others I was "hot" (which I don't believe) yet they go out with other girls willing to do more than I. I also recently found out several of my guy friends "wanted" to ask me out, yet they haven't. I rarely get asked out by guys my own age...what is wrong with me?!!
2006-11-17 16:56:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hate to say it.. but I totally feel your pain... apparently I wasn't "appreciated" until I was in college. Men are stupid... and way far behind us in maturity. Don't worry about it. I'm sure you're fab and you'll find someone great.. I know it feels like the end of the world now, but trust me it's not.
2006-11-17 17:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by LIBERAL 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sweetie nothing is wrong with you at all, I kind of have the same problem but with the girls always seem to attract the wrong ones, i am also a bit shy but working on improving that. I am also impressed by the wait till marriage; I am going for that as well. I would try to be a Bit more outgoing and keep your head held up high, someone will come along. best of luck to you
2006-11-17 17:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by question 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not that there is something wrong with you ...it is that you have integrity and guys can tell by knowing you....and if all they are thinking about is getting in the sack....of course they are going to turn to a girl who is eager. You know kind of a "right now" girl...and you have morals and integrity so that kind of makes you the "marrying type" Don't beat yourself up...if the guys say your hot then believe it because guys are not going to say anything at all if you are not!!
You are one of the apples on the top of the tree...click on the link
2006-11-17 17:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just an observation, but it appears no one has really read your question or answered it.
At 17, most guys are looking for a girl that "puts out". Your "guy" friends know you are saving yourself for marriage, thus, they are not asking you out.
Older guys feel better with younger women and are "Just plane hope-full".
I have also known girls who were absolutely beautiful and were not "stuck up" or stuck on themselves and they didn't think they were very pretty. Keep trying - your time will come. : )
2006-11-17 17:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Say What? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of this has to do with once you're a optimistic man or woman or no longer, as a results of fact whilst all and sundry is too shy adult males do no longer consistently look to make your mind up directly to invite them out as a results of fact they do no longer look relaxing and over optimistic you may appear like only a sprint an ***... I boy began to invite me out whilst i could only communicate greater to them as a chum then they began to love me and could flow from there. even though it relies upon on diverse issues once you're a sparkling man or woman, while you're some what eye-catching the place too plenty make up etc it relies upon additionally on what style of adult males you like besides... yet I wouldnt complication approximately it too plenty it is not some thing to rigidity approximately at my college maximum females who have been given asked out plenty have been sl#ts so from that... a while will come the place some human beings will such as you on the comparable time.
2016-12-30 14:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by criddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! Just be interested. Ask questions. Be interested in life. Don't focus on process just the benefit of being asked. Watch what happens.
2006-11-17 17:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Older men tend to date younger women. It makes them look good and the men feel they can control the relationship.
You should read my question about "saving" yourself.
2006-11-17 16:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing stick to your guns, the right guy will respect you for it
2006-11-17 16:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by True101 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋