I love this man for two years and support him after his divorce. He needs to take care of all kids and houseworks; I talk and text him for supporting. Because of jobs, I am in CA and he is in OK. We didn't spend too much time together. He told me that he doesn't want to have any relationship right now becasue of the divorce. I am his "good" friend. He told me that he likes to receive my phone calls and texts everyday. Sometimes, we talk very personal issues. We only talk 15 minutes a day because he needs to take care of kids. I have no problem on this. But we only talk and text during the weekdays because he needs to be with kids during the weekend. I don't know whether we are already in relationship or not. What does "good" friend mean? I have no chance?
Kids will be with the mom during Thanksgiving. I told him that I want to meet him, but he has to go home with his parents. I understand his situation, but I don't know his true thoughts about us.
Shall I stay and wait?
2006-11-17 16:48:50 · 4 answers · asked by Virgo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow that is a tough issue. I think he thinks of you as a very good friend. someone he can talk to. He just needs time. I think its great when a man thinks about his children first. Time will tell Hun, until than give his some space. wish you all the luck
2006-11-17 16:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you even ever met this guy?
It's not a relationship, if either person says it's not, and he says it's not.
Why do women have so much trouble figuring men out.
Why don't you just actually listen and believe what he's saying?
He's not ready for a relationship. It's not rocket science; that's exactly what he meant when he said that.
2006-11-18 03:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doomed
you have been put in the good friend category.
no one ever dates a good friend cause they don't want to ruin a good friendship.
Just like guys once in the category it is almost impossible to get out.
2006-11-18 00:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THNK THAT HE TREASURE YOU AS A FRIEND BUT I DONT
SEE THIS GOING ANY WHERE, IT REALLY SOUND LIKE
HE STILL DEAL WITH THE DIVORCE. SO JUST GIVE HIM
TIME,BUT DONT WAIT TO LONG, BUT BE THERE FOR
HIM AS A FRIEND. BUT DONT JUST SIT AROUND AND'
WAIT FOR HIM.
2006-11-18 00:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋