How do i find a guy? I really need someone. I am lonely. I hate it when I am single. I know 2 guys that i really really like. one, i can't be with, because he goes to a different school and don't tell me to go to that school 'cuz i can't. and the other guy already has a girlfriend, but i'm positive he likes me. I really don't know what to do! Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 16:38:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
greetings...i sympathize with your situation, so let me see if i can help. being lonely is a drag but it's not the end of the world. someone that deserves you is out there. up until 5 months ago i was literally single for almost 12 years. i dated and all that but never anything serious. then one day this year in march, i met someone. we've been together since. my point is to just be patient and let it happen. i found out by not trying so hard to find the perfect girl, all of the sudden there she was. you mentioned being in school. I'm just assuming your still a teenager. which means your young and have lots of time ahead of you. don't force it, just let it happen. good luck
2006-11-17 17:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear you are lonely. Its not a good feeling. First of all stay away from the guy with a GF until you know she is no longer in the picture. Go out and find some activities you like. you might met a good guy that also likes the things you do. Most guys i know want to date girls who are happy with themselves and their lives. Guys do not want to be with a girl who thinks a man is what she needs to be happy in life. I am positive you will find a great guy when the time is right. wish you well.
2006-11-17 16:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, first as most of them said u do not "NEED" a boy friend. Dont be too needy. When u r too needy u wont really get what u really want coz u r like to accept anything. So be ur self and wait. U will meet the right person on right time. Dont try to jump in to anybody else's relationships. Thats not very nice. I dont know whats wrong with the guy that goes to another school. He doesnt have to be in ur school. Try him. First be a good friend to him then go for it but dont be annoying to him. So good luck.
2006-11-17 16:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by bsk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy from the other school even though technally I'm still dateing a girl in a nother school because I never broke up with her when I moved school's.
The boy you may think is off limit's but the games not over till the reff(other people) blows the whisle. Plus every boy likes for girls to fight over them it makes them feel special.
But why date them when I'm single!(jk)
Like how old are 12,11 or somthing?
2006-11-17 16:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by wh-a.t!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it with girls that love getting guys that have gf.
There are tons of single and lonely guys out there just like you, but nooooo you need someone that's already taken maybe it's the thrill or you just like trouble.
What you need to do is be yourself and accept the one who like the real you and not the fake you who is trying to impress that specific guy because he is popular and stuff, it is not worth it because they all are a bunch of fags
2006-11-17 16:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need one, too! I need one at least 40. Can someone help me? laugh
YOU are single until married.
STOP liking and trying to get guys who have another woman. It never works if you get him.
NExt week you will know 5 guys you really like .I hope you are putting this much attention in your studies.
DROP ZEROS and get yourself a HERO!
LAUGH and have a nice day!
2006-11-17 16:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain. i have the same feeling wiht girls cause i'm a guy so my advice is, let the guy know how you feel and ask him straight on who knows maybe he'll go with you. if you like osmeone don't ask your friend to ask him out for you guys hate that. (trust me)if you say it in his face and he really likes you the words will come right out of his mouth cause he wouldn't want to miss his chance. and if a few days later if everyone figures out you like him either try not ot like him anymore or justsay im a human and i have feelings so go ahead and make fun of me. you catchin up on what im puttin down just do what your heart tells you.youll know
2006-11-17 16:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you dont NEED a boyfriend.......and if you are willing to go for a guy who has a girlfriend then you need to raise your standards bar and self respect. Be you.....be nice and outgoing, and hopefully a nice guy will come along. But STOP this needy behavior, guys pick up on it and will take advantage of you.
2006-11-17 16:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young girls like you need time to MATURE. Right now, I think you wouldn't use good judgement. Theres plenty of time.
Don't be in such a rush. You'll end up making big mistakes.
2006-11-17 16:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i have to tell you, that you dont need to have a guy to have fun!! start going out with your friends! dont count yourself based on if you have a guy or not.
as for the guys...
start talking to them, like online (esp. the one that goes to another school, get to know him).
the other one, with a gf, i would stay away, because if he cheats on her with you, who's to say he wont cheat on you when he's with you?
just wait until they break up and see if he still likes you.
good luck hun!!
2006-11-17 16:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋