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Ok my 5 yr old loves animals wich is fine but she wants to crawl around on her feet and hands and bark, meow or roar at you constintaly at least 1/2 the day she acts this way on and off I just ignore her at home but she likes to do it at the store and I hate it I ask her if she sees other kids act that way and she says no but she likes to. She has been doing this for about 1 1/2 yrs any advice on how to get her to stop would be great.

2006-11-17 16:36:16 · 14 answers · asked by Sharon S 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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Tell her that you can't take animals in stores or into a school...especially when she starts kindergarten. Let her know that it is 'against the rules'. Usually children are very into rules and following them. Allow her to act that way at the zoo, in the park, and at home...places you would usually see animals. Don't stress over it, just plainly tell her the rules and if it bothers you at home...just keep ignoring the behavior, rather than making a big deal out of it. Hopefully one day she will use her love of animals for helping them. Good luck!

2006-11-17 16:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by jkskeet@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2 0

I agree with one of the other answers. Let her be an animal when it is appropriate. I work at school with a child who likes to act like he is driving a car 24/7. We have told him that he can only drive his car at recess. If you do not totally take the activity away, but allow it at certain times it may go away. If she still insists on acting like an animal in public, make it a mouse. Mice are quiet and don't make noise, they mainly watch things. Maybe if your daughter sees how others act, she will be inspired to do the same.

2006-11-18 01:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by bkloveless@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0 0

My 4 year old daughter is doing the exact same!! I told her it was fine to do at home (imagination at work) however in public she needs to act like a little lady, we sometimes need to remind her, but she is usually fine with it knowing once she gets in the car or home she can continue to be a monkey, jaguar, pony whatever the animal of the day or hour is.

2006-11-17 16:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 1 0

i'm bowled over that this behavioral therapist is despatched to artwork inclusive of your toddler, yet neglects the reality that a 2 a million/2 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous has a short interest span and does not experience like sitting their and being puzzled and puzzled over the colors of a interest, or the animals and their distinction. I recommend this is amazingly recommend for her to hold him a interest, and quiz him over issues earlier he's even allowed to play the interest, i'd desire to ascertain how he would get pissed off. it relatively is like bringing out a surprising superb strawberry ice cream cone, and asking your toddler to recite the abc's and months of the years earlier he gets to get exhilaration from the cone. little ones at this age learn by utilising occasion, what you do on a daily basis as long because it relatively is no longer sitting in front of the television and eating ho ho's teaches your toddler the way issues artwork. Your cooking, faux twiddling with him, cleansing teaches him the tactics of the international he has a rather good variety of time to be knowledgeable while he's sufficiently previous to sit down down for 5 seconds. yet suitable now he would desire to be discovering by way of play. i does not in effortless terms question the preschool and their lack of ability to help your infant artwork by way of his thoughts yet i'd additionally question the validity of this therapists intelligence. you comprehend your toddler and in case you spot he's being inadvertently manipulated into doing something he only does not prefer to do i'd tell that therapist to shove it (out of ear shot of direction).

2016-10-15 16:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Feed her from a bowl on the floor. Put a leash on her.

Who is in charge? You are the parent, you set the rules, you set the punishment for breaking the rules. Yes imagination is a wonderful thing, but so is proper behavior. Set the parameters, animal acting is okay at home, but not at the store. A swat on the butt to get attention when needed is not child abuse, it's good parenting and the way to raise a child with manners.

2006-11-17 16:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 3 2

actually I work in a retail store and ya you do see other kids behave like that..
dont let it get to you - neither encourage it (by patting her at home when she is a puppy) nor discourage it (like telling her not to do it in public)
eventually she will either outgrow it.. find something new to annoy you with.. or resolve some issues in her mind about how people are different than other animals.. or who know she may grow up to be a wonderful Veterinarain...

2006-11-17 16:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by CF_ 7 · 1 0

She likes animals very much.I think she will stop.Maybe she likes the attention that she gets from strangers.I know how you feel.After watching the Snow white and seven dwarfs,my 4 year old does the Dopey moves.When he plays drums with his tongue sticking out and eyes closed.Sometimes it can be really annoying.

2006-11-17 18:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by avavu 5 · 0 0

try treating her like an animal for a day cats don't get kids toys or get to do any of the things kids do. If she has some of the disadvantages of playing the role of Kitty she might not like it so much. Hope it helps

2006-11-17 16:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 3 · 0 1

I feel that way about my son and the crazy things he does in public, but just think in 10 years she won't want to be seen with you in public. I don't think other people probably care as much as you think they do. People realize that kids do wild things, they're kids.

2006-11-17 18:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Heather M 2 · 1 0

She is using her imagination, and thats great!! She will stop on her own. Probably when she gets into school- the kids might pick on her a bit, but she will stop after that!

2006-11-17 16:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by boit 4 · 3 0

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